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marketa
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 Posted: 08/27/06 - 23:00 Post subject: Overweight with sexless marriage |
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Hi, after 15 years of marriage, my wife doesn’t want sex anymore. I am aware that I’m overweight, and that I’m not attractive any more, but is this really a reason for a sexless marriage? Any similar cases?
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pustejovsky
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| Posted: 09/11/06 - 04:38 Post subject: |
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Hi, same problem here! I am married to a wonderful man. We have twins, a son and a daughter. I love my husband with all my heart, and I know he loves me too, but he is not longer attracted to me. He didn’t tell me that, but it is obvious, because we didn’t have sex for couple of years. I can not pretend that I don’t know why is that. I gained 15 pounds in the last four years. Before that, I was an attractive woman, and my husband was just crazy about me. He was always giving me compliments on my body and appearance. However, I haven’t heard any of these things for a long time. Guess why! It really hurts when you feel so unwanted. I am willing to give my best to lose some weight, because I don’t want to have sexless marriage any more.
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pjessica
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| Posted: 12/15/06 - 11:48 Post subject: I know how you feel |
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| Hi, I am haveing a simalir problem. My husband and I have only been married a yr and a half, we are both very young and I think he has lost intrest in me sexually due to my weight gain. I feel sex is a very important part of a healthy relationship. My body has changed dramatically in the past yr. We both love each other very much but I have started feeling unwanted and unattractive. I have gained almost 70lbs in the past yr and a half and my husband is very thin. In the first year of our marrage we made love 2 times... I knew something was wrong..my weight. So I tried losing weight naturally by working out but it turns out and my bones are too weak for regular workouts. For the the past few yrs we have made love in the same postion but after a while love making loses its electricity. Are there any postions that would give us a change but be comfortable for a couple like us? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. |
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BlueKat
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| Posted: 02/19/07 - 17:44 Post subject: |
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I have been here myself, but I truly believe that being overweight is no reason for a true, good hearted person to stop loving you in every way. You all deserve better and though some say the grass isn't always greener on the other side, I say one never finds a greener grass without moving around and looking for it. I know some of you are in so much pain because of this and I truly feel for you. Trust me, true love sees more than weight and is not concerned with it for any other reason than health.
To the girl who said she gained 15 lbs, if 15 lbs is really all you've gained, you might want to open your eyes and ears a little more to see if your guy isn't messing around. I have a good sense for that sort of thing and it sounds suspicious to me. Take care of yourself, you deserve more than what it sounds like you're getting.
To the girl right above this post, try something called HydraJoint and a good liquid cap calcium suppliment to help with the pain and weakness. HydraJoint is somthing I discovered recently and it works very well at lubricating the joints. You can find it at Walmart. Here's their website:
hydrajoint.com/hydrajoint2/default.asp |
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susi261
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| Posted: 02/28/07 - 22:41 Post subject: no sex either?? |
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Hi I to have been married a long time 27 years and am overweight about 40 pounds I try really hard but it doens tcome off, I wear makeup and fix my hair, seeing I own a salon! it just seems like nothing matters to my husband? he seems nice most of the time but never seems horny?. its been about a year now without anyyyy kind of sex. he says its because Im not nice, just an excuse I am nice!!! I do extra things for him and more he doesnt see that??, poor excuse I say.. do you think he has someone else in mind at his work??? he always comes home though but once before I noticed a girl that used to work there had the hots for him this made him nervous everytime we were together to see her christmas partys etc.. I accused him and he totally denied it to this day I dont really know the truth?. so I let it blow over.. someone help??  |
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