Ovulating and unprotected sex !

Gwenlala · Newbie Joined: 22 Jun 2006 Posts: 4

Im 21 yrs Old and My last period started June 8th2006 ..I believe Im on a 28 day cycle..I stopped using the pill at the end of March of this year.I had been on the pill for 7 years.I have been trying to figure out my cycle now that Im off the pill ..so I have been reading about Ovulation and when Its most likely to occur.I had unprotected sex with MALE A..on Wednesday Jun 21 2006..in which he ejaculated in me. Later that night I was with another Male friend B and we were masturbating togther at one point I let him insert it and were had sex for like 1 MIN and I jumped off because he said he was going to cum...and about 15 sec later he came on himself.Now I havent ovulated in years and I have been having unprotected sex since I have gotten off the pill.I have not yet been pregnant.Ive tried the "ovulation calculators" and according to the caculators I should be ovulating this week..Is it just one day your more fertile than others or a whole week or so?! According to other sites ..Thursday should have been my fertile day.So am I safe if I didnt have sex on thursday?! Also I read If your trying to get pregant "missionary" is the best position and I was on top .If I was pregant would I still ovulate this weeK and could Male b have gotten me preg..? If he peed before we had sex and didnt cum inside me?I know about pre cum but I just want to know whos more likely to be the father?And how soon can I test?Please respond!!

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

PEEING OR atnyhing like that does not matter, OKAY? Listening to wives tales about how to prevent pregnancy will do nothing but ENSURE THAT YOU ACTUALLY GET pregnant....

IF YOU DO NOT WANT to get pregnant than you are GOING TO HAVE TO USE BIRTH control!!!

FERTILITY/Ovulation charting requires A MONITOR AND TET STICKS TO DO ACCURATELY!

YOU can get pregnant IF YOU HAVE SEX 5 days before ovulation, and 2 days after... BECAUSE SPERM CAN LIVE IN YOU FOR 5 DAYS....

YOU ARE RISKING PREGNANCY, but if you are not using the pill or other method. you have to expect soemthing like that to happen.

Gwenlala · Newbie Joined: 22 Jun 2006 Posts: 4

Cari..Ok ..Im not Sure If Im ovulating yet anyways ..I just guessed becuase of discharge..does ovulation have scent?!..but I couldnt get preg of of 1 min and no cum right?! I may not even be ovualting..

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

There are women who claim to get pregnant from pre cum, and pre cum does have sperm cells in it....

Knowing when you ovulate really does require test strips, using other methods are not fool proof.

If you cannot use hormonal birth control, an IUD is available that is hormone free. I have one because I cannot use birth control, and highly reccomend them to anyone.

You gotta be smart about your body and birth control.

Gwenlala · Newbie Joined: 22 Jun 2006 Posts: 4

If I am preganant are there any early signs..before a missed period?

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

No, you would not have signs of pregnancy until around the time you miss your period, you would be 4-5 weeks pregant....

Unfortunately there are no ways of knowing until about 5 days beofre your peirod, which is the earliest you can take an at home test.

nomorenookie4me · Newbie Joined: 13 Jul 2006 Posts: 12

HELP!!! My PERIOD was expected to be due between the TENTH and the TWELVETH.I had an unprotected encounter on the SEVENTH. Embarassed

At the time, I had been having the usual PMS symptoms like WATER RENTENTION, SWOLLEN BOOBS, EMOTIONAL WRECKAGE, CHOCOLATE CRAVINGS, EATING HEAVILY AND FATIGUE. My partner got a little happy with the foreplay and backed away, but there's always good ole' buddy PRE CUM to do the trick! Very Happy

Henceforth, I cant tell the difference between PMS AND EARLY PREGNANCY SIGNS which I had to the extreme as early as 2 weeks gestation with my first child. I had the incredible erge to have sex and egg white like dischargeA PRELUDE TO OVULATION) Twisted Evil

many days before I had sex. All I can rely on until testing is HOW LONG AFTER OVULATION DOES YOUR PMS AND PERIOD ARRIVE? Flourish me with information on this one. Every little bit helps. Thanks.

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

If you had sex on the 7th, and your period was due the 9-13, you would not have become pregnant (IF YOU ARE) from that encounter.

Have you had unprotected sex before then?

nomorenookie4me · Newbie Joined: 13 Jul 2006 Posts: 12

Before the seventh, I hadnt had any sex at all for 8 months. (NEW PARTNER NOW is the reason I broke this record.) Crying or Very sad

While I sincerely do trust your judgement. out of curiosity.... mind breaking down the biological reason why Im not pregnant? Shocked

And furthermore, where in blue hell is my period? Can having sex after a long bout with celebacy throw your cycle off?

Ive resorted to abstainance as bith control because conventional methods served me in the literal sense, Heavy bleeding daily for a year with no intervals for intercourse. So I really need to know how long after oVulation am I in the clear to expect a period? Thanks in advance and info wise, LAY IT ON ME!!! Wink

evacar · Newbie Joined: 30 Aug 2006 Posts: 1

i had unproteced sex last night. he pulled way before we came. but , i do know about pre-cum. i took a ovlualtion test just now and it showe i was ovulating. could i be pregant and is it to late to take the morning after pill?

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