Posted: 09/17/06 - 21:47 Post subject: POSSIBLY CHEATING HUSBAND
SOMEONE - ANYONE: I HAVE BEEN SUSPECTING MY HUSBAND OF CHEATING AND ONE OF THE SIGNS I NOTICED IS THE DIRTY UNDERPANTS. WHEN I CONFRONTED HIM HE SAID IT IS JUST PRECUM AND SAID IT JUST HAPPENS FOR NO REASON THAT IT DOESNT MEAN HE IS CHEATING OR MASTURBATING AND HE GETS VERY DEFENSIVE.I FOUND THIS A FEW TIMES A WEEK FOR A FEW MONTHS AND WHEN I DID CONFRONT HIM HE STARTED DOING HIS OWN LAUNDRY. SO MY QUESTION IS CAN PRECUM HAPPEN FOR NO REASON? IS THERE ALWAYS EJACULATION AFTER PRECUM?
All I can say is lucky you…he is doing his own laundry. Mine wouldn’t do that if we were in a huge fight. Mamma’s boys….
Precum happens for no reason…actually it occurs when they get aroused….but it doesn’t have to get it up. You know that men get aroused just by thinking about sex or seeing a good pair of boobies. It is called nature. He could be even thinking of you and had the precum. So, precum occurs when they get aroused to lubricate the foreskin and before ejaculation to clear the urethra from any urine leftovers.
Precum serves to lubricate the penis and foreskin before intercourse so it can occur anytime. My boyfriend can have precum even before we start but the sex is in the air, so believe me this is nothing to worry about.
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