Post Abortion Syndrome

0826 · Newbie Joined: 09 Mar 2007 Posts: 1

THE abortion of a child is murder, life obviously is present from conception, anyone with logic would see that! the process becomes an infringment on the dignity of the women and especially as that life was meant to be a FRUIT in LOVE, it reduces us to the women and the sexual act as meaningless object! and becomes an infringement on our freedom to love.
- PAS is a very real problem and its not true that only women who are forced get it-
70% of women who had abortions were forced by so called 'loved ones' (yeah Right!) what does that say about the lie of the name "free choice" when infact women are either forced by someone or feel they have no other choice!
a child is a gift to the world and human life must not be treated with indifference and disgarded at will! no one will get away with doing evil in this world, there is a consequence to it all.
i love you all and there is still healing for each heart!

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A woman I know had an abortion 30 years ago and says she thinks about it every day. She has endured years of regret. If you are struggling turn to a pregnancy alternative center. Don't go to planned parenthood. They have an agenda and they may not tell you the truth. They won't tell you that you may live to regret a decision made out of fear. I have another friend that was pregnant at 16 and had the baby, gave him up for adoption and also thinks about him everyday but with no regret. She is proud that she gave him life and a chance at growing up in a family. Think about the consequences. Once it's done, you don't get to change your mind

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2723

I have had 3 abortions in my lifetime, and regret NOTHING.

ONLY an individual person KNOWS how they will react. IF you are not 'sure' you want an abortion, then do not have one, or you may likely feel regret.

I was SURE I wanted an abortion.

cactusheart · Newbie Joined: 27 Aug 2008 Posts: 1

Panicked pregnant women who gave not one second of forethought about the possibility of unplanned pregnancy all too quickly go to either a "pregnancy crisis" center or "planned parenthood" (how inaccurate is THAT name btw, as it's always filled with nothing BUT women with UNPLANNED pregnancies?) in help with making a decision on what to do with their pregnancies. In my experience, I can attest that BOTH places have an agenda, 'pregnancy crisis' will prey on your vulnerability and sense of morality for you to KEEP your baby, 'planned parenthood' for you to NOT. Once you are confirmed you are indeed pregnant, it is imperative for you to take some time to make this decision ON YOUR OWN. NO ONE on EARTH knows what's better for you than YOU. Don't place such power in the control of another no matter how well-intended they may be (or appear). Other people are all too eager to steer your opinions THEIR way, but they are never going to stand in for you when the consequence of your decision (whichever it may be) taps you on the shoulder & says 'hello'...They're just going to shrug and say "well, it's YOUR life!" YOU need to take stock of YOUR OWN life, where you are in it, whether you'd be able to PROPERLY provide for a child, mentally, emotionally, FINANCIALLY, etc. THEN go the pregnancy alterntive center that will best serve your decision and needs...NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND! As you might be coerced into making a decision you may later regret and can NEVER take back. You all have heard more than enough about women grieving their decision to terminate their pregnancies, but no one seems to give the OTHER side of the argument their fair share of attention: women who decided to KEEP their pregnancies and lived to REGRET IT!!! You can tune it out, change the subject and ignore it all you want, it's still exists...You KNOW THEY'RE OUT THERE, though oftentimes the women themselves don't have the courage to confess (even to themselves). Remember, THIS TOO is a consequence-filled decision you CAN'T EVER TAKE BACK! Again, you have to do what's right for YOU....Carefully weigh both possibilities yourself. Don't give that control to someone else.

As for me? When I was stupid enough to let myself get into that situation (YES I SAID STUPID! AND LET MYSELF! Women are much more in control of their fertility than they EVER care to realize. The fact that there are still "oops" pregnancies in THIS day in age is shameful), I took a different path entirely...I went to the local grocery and health food store and bought a series of herbs, minerals and vitamins (I won't disclose which here. If you wish, you can easily research it yourself as I did) and within 48hrs I miscarried without having to get an abortion procedure (which I DID NOT WANT!!) I knew as hard as I struggle (as it is) to make a life for myself, what I could provide for a child would be a sub-standard existance at best (among 1,000 OTHER REASONS why I don't want to have a kid). During the time I was starting to feel maybe I didn't have such a good idea, I reminded myself of these reasons and I felt assured and at peace again. It's been almost 2yrs now and my feelings haven't wavered since. I still know in my heart and mind, I made the right decision.

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