Pre-cum/Erection

buckball02 · Newbie Joined: 23 Apr 2006 Posts: 1

Hi im 19 years old and i am a virgin. I have a girl friend who I very much want to have sex with. But the few times i have been close to insertion my penis has not been erect enough. I do not have a problem getting an erection any time else when i am with her. When i do get an erection when i am with her when we are kissing etc. I eventually lose it when the pleasure ends and i excrete an amount of what i believe is precum. It seems that each time I get an erection and lose it (and excrete precum) the preceading erection is weaker. This is causing me a lot of psycological stress any adivice would be appreciated.

Thank You

Tim · Supporter Joined: 03 Mar 2006 Posts: 233

I think losing your erection is the consequence of some stress or just the thought if you are going to do everything right. Does such things pop up on your mind, like what if I do something wrong or something, just such thoughts that could make you insecure. If so, you should try to get rid of such thoughts and just don’t think about anything and let things go their way. I bet you will make it.
Does your girlfriend know you are a virgin? What does she say about it, is she helping you with losing your virginity?
I know you can have a regular erection when you are alone, then there is no one to be ashamed of if something goes wrong, like it’s the case when you are with your girlfriend.
I think you just need to make your head clean and relax yourself to the maximum and I assure you- everything will go smoothly.
Good luck!!!

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