Pregnancy from threesome :(

girlthatneedshelp · Guest

hi,
i had my first threesome 2 weeks ago and i just found out im 2 weeks pregnant and i dont know whos the father,
but the tricky part is that i am marrying one of them but what if he's not the dad?

Guest · Guest

wow this is HARD . . . it's hard to hear what's going on with u but are u sure ur pregnant? i'm 6months pregnant and there is no possible test that would show ur pregnant after 2 weeks. there in fact is no fetus/baby in you right now. it is all fluid, if at that (short of like an egg). Your egg might now even be fertilized. if you are hope it ur boyfriends baby. . . have you put thought into taking the day-after pill ? talk 2 ur doctor to be sure there are ways. next itme be SAFE good luck. Smile

Guest · Guest

she i right there is no way any test could tell you that you are just 2 weeks pregnant! the earlist they can tell you is 5 days before your first missed cycle. why oul you have a threesom un portected no matter haow well you know the people. i can understand your boyfriend but not the other guy. you need to keep in mind al the stuf you can get theese days. and some of it you cant even see so he could of had it and you would have never knew

Andrew1977 · Newbie Joined: 22 May 2008 Posts: 1

My wife and I are a young (early 30's) highly educated, financially secure, church going couple. We have been VERY happily married for >11 years now. This is the back-drop for perhaps another point of view on threesomes and pregnancy.

My wife and I have enjoyed about five threesomes in our 11 year marriage - a pretty even mix of WMW and MWM threesomes. We are VERY selective of our third partner, and the relationships tend to last - NO one night stands! They always involve very lengthy and careful discussions UP FRONT regarding ground rules, boundries, and potential consequences of the threesome - like pregnancy.

To the point - our fifth and final threesome began about 3 years ago - and it involves me (hetero-sexual), my best friend (also hetero-sexual), and my wife (bi-sexual). Based on the education level of all involved, and some superior communication, this arraingement has worked out - amazingly well.

It has been incredibly liberating, and sexually exciting for all involved. I am regularly reminded, never to take my wife for granted - and each time we are alone together, I see her with "new" (AKA my best friend's) eyes.

My wife enjoys the undivided attention, variety, satisfaction, and just flat out endurance, easily achieved by two men working together - focused only on her.

My best friend admits he enjoys (among many things) the intense sexual climax he achives from having adulterous, taboo, unprotected sex - with another man's wife. The arraingement is so good - that he has decided to fully commit himself to only his career - and to our threesome - for all of his sexual needs. For more than 3 years now, this committment has stood the test of time.

My wife (of course!) is on oral birth control - AKA "The Pill". To make a long story short - about 1 1/2 years into our threesome - following a week long ocean cruise - of really incredible, high volume sex - the statistics finally caught up with all three of us, and despite excellent compliance with my wife's birth control pills - the 1% failure rate pregnancy - did indeed occur.

As per our agreement - she carried the child to term, and our second daughter was born. We have raised her (with sincere love) as our own. No paternity testing is planned.

We are still regularlly involved sexually with my best friend - and our threesome arraingment honestly just keeps getting hotter, and better.

However, my wife and I did have an honest discussion with her GYN doctor about our bedroom guest. He has since prescribed her a birth control pill that is much more medically appropriate for contraception by a woman with two male partners. Wink

Guest · Guest

My wife and I are a young (early 30's) highly educated, financially secure, church going couple. We have been VERY happily married for >11 years now. This is the back-drop for perhaps another point of view on threesomes and pregnancy.

My wife and I have enjoyed about four threesomes in our 11 year marriage - a pretty even mix of 2 WMW and 2 MWM threesomes. We are VERY selective of our third partner, and the relationships tend to last a year or more - NO one night stands! Our threesomes always involve very lengthy and careful discussions UP FRONT regarding ground rules, boundaries, and potential consequences of the threesome - like pregnancy.

To the point - our fifth and final threesome began about 3 years ago - and it involves me (hetero-sexual), my best friend (also hetero-sexual), and my wife (bi-sexual). Based on the education level of all involved, and some superior communication, this arrangement has worked out - amazingly well.

It has been incredibly liberating, and sexually exciting for all involved. I am regularly reminded, never to take my wife for granted - and each time we are alone together, I see her with "new" (AKA my best friend's) eyes.

My wife enjoys the undivided attention, variety, satisfaction, and just flat out endurance, achieved easily by two men working together – focused only on her.

My best friend fully admits, that sex with my wife - is by far - the best sex he’s ever had - and that he specifically enjoys (among many things) the incredibly intense orgasms he achieves inside her from adulterous, taboo, unprotected sex.

The arrangement is so good - that he has decided to fully commit himself to only his career - and to our threesome for all of his sexual needs. For more than 3 years now, this commitment has stood the test of time.

My wife (of course!) is on oral birth control - AKA "The Pill". To make a long story short - about 1 1/2 years into our threesome - following a week long ocean cruise - of really incredible, high volume sex - the statistics finally caught up with all three of us, and despite excellent compliance with my wife's birth control pills - the 1% failure rate pregnancy - did indeed occur.

As per our agreement - she carried the child to term, and our second daughter was born. We have raised her (with sincere love) as our own. No paternity testing is planned.

We are still regularly involved sexually with my best friend - and our threesome arraignment honestly just keeps getting hotter, and better.

However, my wife and I did have an honest discussion with her GYN doctor about our bedroom guest. He has since prescribed her a birth control pill that is much more medically appropriate for contraception by a woman with two male partners. Wink

achampagne · Moderator Joined: 06 Jan 2008 Posts: 710 Location: Texas

while the GUESTS were right about you not being able to tell when you are two weeks pregnant, your baby could be two weeks old. the weeks you are pregnant are determined by your last menstral cycle. so, you really aren't pregnant for the two weeks you are considered pregnant. confusing?
but, for the future, anyone considering having multiple partners (men or women) it would be wise to use protection. not only to prevent pregnancy, but also for STD's.
yes, condoms can break, but it's better to try to attempt to protect yourself. a friend of mine got an incurable disease at the early age of 20. she will suffer with this for the rest of her life.

Pregnancy from threesome :(

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