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crazyinlove123
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 Posted: 07/14/08 - 09:33 Post subject: Pregnant and having lesbian thoughts |
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Hey there you guys, i really hope someone can help me.
ok here goes
I'm 21 years old and I've been with my partner (who i love very much) for approx 3 years. i have had reationships with men before too.
We recently found out were pregnant and couldn't be happier, the only thing is, after finding out the sex of my baby i started to get these really scary thoughts.
my boyfriend has always pleasured me sexually and we are not afraid to explore in the bedroom dept but i find i get turned on by girl on girl porn too.When masturbating, i find i get arroused when thinking of girls doing rude things to each other  , and men doing things to them at the same time.I do look at some girls and think 'God she's pretty',but then my mind wil get carried away telling me i want her sexually? I have snogged and been fingered by a girl (my best friend) before, but i think this was a drunken experiment, even though we both enjoyed it.
Since i have been pregnant these thoughts have become more intense and i now find myself thin 'does this mean i'm a lesbian?' and convincing myself i fancy certain girls that i honestly don't find attractive!
I don't want to be in a relationship with a girl,but with my baby on the way i'm frightened of what she might think of her mum as she gets older.
Sorry for blabbing, but i really hope someone can help![/b] |
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| Posted: 08/10/08 - 20:05 Post subject: me too |
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| I can't speak for anybody else, but I am now in my second pregnancy and for the second time have experienced an increase in thoughts about other women. I think pregnancy is a physically and emotionally intense time, and women often become a lot more sensual and a lot more aware of and fascinated by their bodies- and other womens'. It just doesn't get talked about! I also have a male partner and love him, and enjoy our sex life, though at some times more than others- I think that whether people are male or female, gay or heterosexual they experience ups and downs with their partner which are nothing to do with loving them or not loving them. Please don't feel guilty either towards your partner or baby. I would take a guess that the feelings you are having are fairly common. |
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