Pregnant not sure who father is

butterflygirl · Newbie Joined: 07 Apr 2007 Posts: 1

Hi,
HELP!! I have a problem that I need some advice on I cannot talk to anyone I know about this because of the situation I am in. I am married and due to have a baby in June. The due date given to me is June 16th. My last menstral period was on September 8th. My period does not always come on the same exact day each month, but I do consider myself to have regular periods (as they do come every month) & my cycle is usually 28-29 days. (My period in august was on the 12th) I had unproteced sex with my husband because we wanted a baby- we had unprotected sex during the time of month when I thought was most fertile and I was ovulating, (from the 20th to 24th) I was counting 12-14 days after my LMP. I feel so guilty about this but I also had sex- with a condom most of the time but unprotected using the withdrawl method also a few times- with another person around this same time. He did not ejaculate near my vaginal area at all during the times he pulled-out of me without a condom on. I had sex with this person on the 18th and 19th of September and also on the 25th & 26th- he never ejaculated inside me. My husband did each time we had sex this month. In your opinion based on the information I am providing here do you think the baby is my husbands or is there a big possibility it could be the other man's? Please respond, please help.!

ImmortalOne · Gold Member Joined: 05 Jan 2007 Posts: 437

There is always a chance it could be the other man's but more than likely it seems to be more possible that your father is the happy father to be. You can always ask the other man to take a DNA test if need be after the baby is born just to be certain however.

commando · Newbie Joined: 02 May 2007 Posts: 4

I'll try to help by telling you i am a 28 year old man who has been using the withdrawal method since i lost my verginity years and years ago i should have an army of children by now but i dont i only have 1 son 2 years old and thats just because the condom broke during a heated simultaneous orgasm where we didnt realize the condom broke until afterwards so i hope that calms your mind.

BUT, ON THE OTHER HAND!!!!!,

any doctor will tell you that a man secreats small amounts of PRESIMINAL FLUID when turned on before and DURING sex this fluid contains small amounts of semen and SPERM so just because the other man withdrawed dosent mean tiny amounts of sperm didnt enter your vagina so to be on the safe side always use a condom and to be absolutely sure who the father is DONT CHEAT ON YOUR HUSBAND!!!!!!!!!

pr3ttygurl · Newbie Joined: 24 Apr 2008 Posts: 1

LMAO0. UR A H0EEE! DNT KNO0 WH0 DA BABY DADDI IZ.. DAMN SHAME.. JUS ST0P FUCKIN EVERY1 WIT YA LO0SE ASZ PUSSY.. & WH0
DA HELLLLL CHEATSZ 0N THERE HUZBAND? W0W. HAVE U NO0O SHAME?! YUCK

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