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wohl
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 Posted: 01/05/07 - 00:00 Post subject: Pregnant with a married neighbour |
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Hi. I am 24 years old. I am 2 months pregnant with a married neighbor. I feel completely lost. He has no intention of leaving his wife. He already has two children, twin girls. What to do? Any suggestions?
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thurber
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| Posted: 01/11/07 - 06:21 Post subject: |
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Hi. I had a lover, he was married too. I mean, he still is. They never leave their women, you should know better. When I stayed pregnant with him, he said he has never really loved me and he came back to his wife. Anyway, I have decided to keep my baby, and I have no regrets. I have a beautiful baby boy, 6 months old. He is really all I have. However, the decision is only yours. I am a catholic and I would never had an abortion.
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my2cents
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| Posted: 09/04/07 - 03:32 Post subject: |
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Hi. I had a lover, he was married too. I mean, he still is. They never leave their women, you should know better. When I stayed pregnant with him, he said he has never really loved me and he came back to his wife. Anyway, I have decided to keep my baby, and I have no regrets. I have a beautiful baby boy, 6 months old. He is really all I have. However, the decision is only yours. I am a catholic and I would never had an abortion.
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This is just an observation, and nothing more, so don't get all offended. please.
I am certainly not the religious type, and I don't know much about the different religions but anyway - So, you had a lover (pre-marital sex), who was married and still is, you got pregnant - out-of-wedlock - and you kept the baby because you are Catholic, and would never have an abortion...
So then, being a Catholic=No abortion, and not OK, right? BUT, having pre-marital sex with a married guy, getting pregnant, and having his kid is OK? Sounds a bit like pretzel logic to me. |
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misiu11
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I'm a Catholic and I agree with the last comments. She forgot to mention that they didn't use condoms also because she is Catholic. I'm from the land of the former Pope and I can tell you, if you sleep around like that, you just sound ridiculous telling people that you're not going to have an abortion because you're Catholic. But I have a feeling you just did what you felt was the right thing to do (I hope).
I don't understand however how you can go down this path w/o thinking of the possible consequences ? Were you just having fun ? If so, you are not very mature. Did you want to break up his family so he can be with you ? If so, you are not a very good person. I thought women were smarter than this ? You know all guys will sleep with anyone. If they tell you different, don't believe it. I'm a married guy and this is how it is. Some guys just find ways to suppress their urges and some don't. |
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