Problems after sex

I have had a total hysterectomy and I have had pain in my urethra for many yrs. I have had a scope of my bladder done and my urologist says it looks ok and Test was also negative. My urine tests are negative. I have had a scope of my bladder done and my urologist says it looks ok. I have had a total hysterectomy. When the urologist took a catheter urine specimen he dilated my urethra, now it is painful to have sex. I have problems after sex; my clitoris area gets swollen and hurts to touch. I constantly feel like I have to urinate and when my clitoris area is touched the painful urination feeling increase. What is wrong with me?

It sounds bad; although I am not sure what is it. I had some pain after sex on clitoris, but it wasn't like yours. The urethral pain sounds like urethral syndrome which is felt to be an inflammation of the Skene's glands at the opening to the urethra and for that Treatment is long term antibiotics and antibiotics after sexual relations. Usually there is no associated clitoral pain; I'm not sure what that might be.