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 Posted: 03/09/08 - 08:25 Post subject: Problems having sex for the first time with my girlfriend. p |
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| Me and my girlfriends are both first timer. For a couple of days ago we been trying to have sex for the first time, she is a virgin and me too. We both 18 years old. She enjoys the moment till the very time before the intercourse, she feels afraid. Last night she finally decided to fight her fear and try penetration. When we make contact she get super nervous. I slowly try to penetrate, she is so tight, she started enjoying but at the same time moaning saying it hurts and shake me off. I was so frustrated. We tried a position she suggested, she on top of me but she took so long that my erection ceased and protection went out. While i produce myself another erection and put some new protection , she gave up on his fear and dressed up. After dressing up she feel remorse for not having sex and gets frustrated for being unable. i was so frustrated too, i was so close and every thing just vanished. Please i would like to know any advice please im so desperate and frustrated because of this situation? Come on, the break of a hymen hurts and afraids she so bad???? |
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If your girlfriend is afraid to have sex with you then you need to wait until she is ready. When she is ready to have sex you will not have to go through this yo-yo affect with her (come on. no wait. come on. no I'm scared)
Now, of course she is tight. That is the beauty of her being a virgin. When you finally do the do her vagina will fit you like a glove.
*For her first time having sex her attempting to ride you is the worst position she could have chosen. May I suggest that you are on top and once you suit up and are sure that your penis is at the opening of her vagina that you ask her if she is ready. IF she says yes push very hard and very fast 1or2 good times so that you are in. Once you are in you can
go back to being gentle.
Think of it like peeling off a band-aid. If you peel it off slowly it hurts worse than if you just snatch it off very quickly then it's over. Good luck. If you decide to follow my advice let me know how it goes if you want. |
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