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mortier
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 Posted: 10/29/05 - 02:00 Post subject: Problems with husband and oral sex! |
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Hi. I'm 30 year old female and I would like to discuss some thing with you. Recently I got married with my boyfriend with whom I dated about five years.
I really enjoying spending time with him and the marriage was the next logical step. Beside this, all these years the sex was just amazing and I have no complaints on it. Only one thing is bothering me right now. Every time my husband and I have intercourse, he wants oral sex first. I mean I know that man supposedly love oral sex, but before every sex...! I'm not so sure. I really started to hate this and when I asked him about it he told me that every couple does it.
What should I do!?
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milosevich
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| Posted: 10/31/05 - 05:13 Post subject: |
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I will tell you some facts from my experience. Believe me- all men are excited and aroused by oral sex, so your husband's desire isn't unusual at all. Some of them refuse to have “normal” sex at all because oral thing is enough for some of them.
If this occurred than it could be a serious problem. I have some advices for you.
First, refuse to do an oral sex every time he wants to have sex and make him enjoy in normal, penetrating sexual intercourse again. Maybe it will need some time to do it but it will be worded.
You didn’t mention does your husband give you an oral pleasure. If you want your husband to go down on you and he doesn't, you should change that immediately so that oral sex becomes a shared experience for the both of you.
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| Posted: 01/20/07 - 21:01 Post subject: |
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| i no how you feel my husbands the same but wont perform oral 4 me i love it too my ex always gave it to me my hubby wont if he wants oral sometimes sex is over before it starts and i am annoyed at this |
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lty_patt
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| Posted: 04/15/07 - 13:05 Post subject: |
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I'M ALL ABOUT GIVING MY HUSBAND ORAL SEX. I LOVE IT. IT'S JUST SOMETHING ABOUT HAVING HIM IN MY MOUTH THAT MAKES ME WANT HIM MORE. HE ALSO MAKES THESE GREAT FACES. I WOULD RATHER GIVE HIM ORAL THAN RECIEVE IT MYSELF BECAUSE HE MAKES ME WET TO WHERE I WOULD RATHER FEEL HIM SPREAD ME OPEN THEN TO SLIDE ON HIM. I LIKE THE REAL TIGHT PRESSURE AS HE PENETRATES ME. HE LIKES IT TOO.
MAKE HIM GIVE YOU ORAL BEFORE YOU GIVE HIM HIS. TELL HIM "YOU FIRST, THEN I'LL DO IT." IF HE DOESN'T WANT TOO THEN DON'T GIVE HIM HIS. |
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| Posted: 08/10/07 - 19:06 Post subject: My husband loves it too!!! |
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 My husband loves oral sex a lot and nothing gives me more pleasure then to please him because I know I am going to be pleased in everyway. I love giving my husband oral sex sooo much because it makes our time more intimate! I think it should be a give and take situation that way no one is unhappy and both parties needs are being met...BOTTOMLINE! |
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| Posted: 02/12/08 - 20:46 Post subject: my hubby |
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| I love oral sex too but my hubby only wishes me to give him oral sex but won't perform oral for me. I really wish we could start foreplays but he always wanted to go inside me and finish. |
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| Posted: 02/13/08 - 19:30 Post subject: |
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| Saying 'every couple does it' is a gross overstatement. It DOES do a few good things, such as get him more aroused, get you wetter, extends foreplay, etc... but it sounds like you're stuck in a routine. It's nice to know what you like, but you should request that you try something different next time. You can maybe trade off oral sex only on certain days, or just do it when it happens naturally but dont make it so you HAVE to do it every time. |
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