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 Posted: 04/08/07 - 16:18 Post subject: Protected Sex, and yet at the moment scared |
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I'm 16 and me and my boyfriend have had sex three times, and we've used a condom everytime. I recently informed my parents that I've been active because about a few days ago I noticed that when I wiped there was spotting, and I thought that it could be my period starting, but its only happened that one time (the spotting). I havent had any other spotting or anything like that. It's really weird though, I'm supposed to be getting my period sometime this week, and I am a little scared at the moment, 'cause I don't know if it could of just been from rough intercourse (the last time we had sex was the day before I noticed the spotting), or if i could actually be pregnant (the second last time we had sex which was just last week, he did use his hand but he hadnt touched himself or anything - the only time he touched himself was when he removed the condom - but he didn't touch skin to skin kinda thing). I'm going to be getting a test done if I notice any more symptoms (so far - spotting, increased appetite - the appetite could just be me from being nervous or something), but if I could get any help or tips that would be great. (and yes my boyfriend and I have agreed on no sex for a LONG time, but I have decided to go on the pill, I even already have it with me) Though I am the kind of person that worries easily, I would just like a second oppinion kinda thing.
Sorry for the story, but I didnt know how else to vent this pent up stuff
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| Posted: 05/04/08 - 07:24 Post subject: ;) |
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don't worry. you CAN'T get pregnant from protected sex...and the spottings are from your hymen break...
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| Posted: 05/04/08 - 13:43 Post subject: |
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Although I don't want you to worry either the previous person was wrong.
You CAN get pregnant from "protected" sex. Wearing a condom is only 85% effective and that is with perfect use.
I am guessing that the spotting is most likely from the "roughness" of the intercourse or like previous post could still be you hymen. Going on the pill is a GREAT idea and make sure that you continue using a condom for at LEAST the first 2 weeks of the pill pack (preferably longer to protect from STDs) to prevent pregnancy.
i wouldn't let yourself get worked up just yet....if you miss your period take a test (preferable a first response test they have the highest accuracy rate) but I have a feeling you wont need to....
You seem very mature for your age BTW....refreshing ... the pill is going to make your life a lot easier it was a great decison for you- i went on the pill when i was 14 (many, many years ago) and loved it- stayed on it until i was 27...when i decided tohave babies |
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