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pjsbabygirl88
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 Posted: 11/01/06 - 18:57 Post subject: Questions On Virginity |
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Hello everyone! Ever since my boyfriend and I got together 7 months ago we've wanted to take our relationship to the next step. I'm so sure I want to have sex with him,but I am a virgin and I am SO scared of all the things I've heard about losing virginity. Any girl I've spoken to has told me how bad it hurt them and how they are so happy it only happens that way once. Being who I am I happen to be really afraid of pain. I know I have a low pain tolerance. I love my boyfriend so much,but I am afraid I'll end up being a virgin forever! Anytime we've attempted sex I've chickened out or I get so tense that my legs just want to close. My mind keeps telling me it's ok,but my body just doesn't want any part of it. I NEED HELP! Is it true that losing virginity is extremly painful? If so what can I go to help ease the pain alittle? What can I do to relax myself when he tries to enter me? I'll appreciate any replies I can get. Thanks.
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KHolly001
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| Posted: 11/04/06 - 00:33 Post subject: |
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| sex for the first time is painful. not scream like someones killing you painful. but it does hurt. let me ask you this... are you on birth control? or planning on using condoms. thats the first step you need to take. as for the sex itself. make him go very slow, make sure you are well lubricated, and when he enters.. try not to tense up your muscles. just try to let your whole body relax.. i know easier said than done. it will hurt. but only for a few minutes, the pain will subside once your hymen is broken. but first things first!!! get on birth control! you seem responsible enough to have sex, be resposible enough to have safe sex!!! good luck!!! |
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| Posted: 12/10/06 - 20:54 Post subject: |
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| Losing Ur Virginity Can Be Different For All Girls Some Say Its Painful Others It May Not Be..Me Personally It Was Painless Which Was Surprizing Because I Never Used Tampons Or Anything That Could Strech me except exercising but i think that was because i too listened to everyone else talk about how it was soo painful that when the time came the pain didnt really live up to what everyone made it out to be, i knew it was gonna be alrite when he looked me in the eyes and said im not gonna hurt you, but i say follow your heart and make sure you use protection |
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