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Anonymous
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Posted: 02/22/07 - 13:05 Post subject: REGRETING GETTING AN ABORTION |
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| I'VE MADE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE IN MY LIFE. I CONVINCED MYSELF TO GET AN ABORTION BECAUSE I WAS WORRIED ABOUT WHAT MY FAMILY WOULD THINK AS WELL AS HIS FAMILY. I HAVE BEEN DEPRESSED ALMOST EVERYDAY SINCE I HAD THE PRCEDURE DONE. MY BOYFRIEND TOLD ME THAT HE WOULD BE BY MY SIDE NO MATTER WHAT DECISION I MADE AND HE TOLD ME THAT MAYBE IT WAS A GOOD IDEA THAT I DID GET IT BECAUSE HE WANTS ME TO FINISH COLLEGE. BUT I GOT USE TO BEING PREGNANT AND ATTACHED TO MY BABY AND SYMPTONS. MY DECISION HAVE BEEN EATING ME UP INSIDE AND IM CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT TO DO. |
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MTR
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Posted: 02/22/07 - 13:55 Post subject: |
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I'm sorry to hear your regrets. I have similar feelings as you. Guilt will be part of me for the rest of my life.
As far as I know, seems most women who have abortions later regret it, or maybe this is just my personal feelings? |
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Posted: 06/15/07 - 11:49 Post subject: |
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| I feel for you. I know that you cant live in the past and its no use and no help to beat myself up about it but it was the single worst decision of my life and i regret it everyday. |
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Posted: 06/21/07 - 16:03 Post subject: |
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| I am really sorry you made that decision. But the decision is done and you need to move on in your life, you need to continue to go to college and live your life the best you can so when you are ready to be a mom, you wont make the same mistake. Also, you should really get on birth control or use condoms or dont ahve sex with your boyfriend untill you are ready to have a baby, Nothing is going to be 100% that you will not get pregnant. I got pregnant w/ twins and iwas using the pill and on the shot... but i never thought about getting an obortion... I will be praying for you, you really need to take care of yourself, and dont care what people think of you.... honestly, i think people will look down on you more for the decision that you have made, but you need to talk to someone who is important to you. If your bf is not upset about it at all i would talk to someone else, like your mother or sister aunt, best firend... dont care what they think of you, it was not their decision and they have no right to judge you... but you need to go through this with someone you can count on... |
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