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BABY_DOLL14
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 Posted: 08/16/07 - 02:03 Post subject: SHOULDI LOOSE MY VIRGINITY AT THESE AGE |
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| ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD BEEN PLANING ON HAVING SEX BUT AM ONLY 14 AND AM REALLY SCARED IF IS GOING TO HURT? |
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azugschwert
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| Posted: 08/16/07 - 08:33 Post subject: |
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| It is possible that i will hurt. If he goes slow for you then it shouldnt hurt to bad. My fiance and I had never had sex without anyone else when we started having sex. He went really slow and it didnt hurt nor did i bleed. |
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| Posted: 08/18/07 - 11:01 Post subject: virginity |
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im 16 yr old female, I lost my virginity when i was 13. yeah a little early, but it wasnt bad and the boy and i are still friends and he was a friend of mine since my early childhood.
i would recommend you practice with an object first. Unless youre determined to have your hymen broken from sex. that way you could take it slow and do it at your pace, like taking off a bandaid.
also how big is he? big penises hurt a little if you never had a big one before, and feel so much better than small ones once you open up, but small ones are good to start with cause they dont hurt. |
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Alex Creighton
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| Posted: 08/18/07 - 22:34 Post subject: |
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If it's your first time, and your Hyman hasn't been broken than the odds are it's going to hurt a little, and there may be blood but it's nothing to worry about if this is what happens.
As for sex at your age, the answer is whatever feels right to you, but don't go off and get pregnant. |
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rjo921
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| Posted: 08/20/07 - 19:15 Post subject: |
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| Please....at 14 you should be thinking about different things than from having sex. You should not be worried about whether it is going to hurt or not...but what are some of the very adult consequences might be if you engage in sex at 14. I don't mean to sound preachy...and I am not going to say that you are a bad person if you do it at your age...think of it as I was once your age as well. So many things have changed in society and how teenagers live their lives...and it was just a short 15 years ago for me. Unfortunately, one thing has stayed the same...peer pressure...the need to fit into the crowd....to make sure that everybody likes you. Take it from someone who has been there and done that....at 14 there is so much more that you should be doing than worrying about whether it is the right time to have sex. Think of it this way....for the rest of your life....the actions that you take now will affect you later on in life...whether it is 2 days,months, years, decades....whatever....the decisions you make now will affect you later....hopefully they will be positive outcomes....but if you are not carefull....they can lead down the wrong path. It's nice to think that everything will be ok and wonderfull during your teenage years....most of the time that is right...but please do not be foolish. Please wait....not because I'm older than you and I'm telling you not to do something....but due to the fact that you need to make sure that you love and respect yourself before you give a very special gift to that special someone. Good luck and I hope you make the right choice for you. |
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daisy33loca
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| Posted: 08/20/07 - 19:50 Post subject: Re: SHOULDI LOOSE MY VIRGINITY AT THESE AGE |
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| BABY_DOLL14 wrote: | | ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD BEEN PLANING ON HAVING SEX BUT AM ONLY 14 AND AM REALLY SCARED IF IS GOING TO HURT? |
I would like to offer you some advice and ideas to think about first.
Never take having sex lightly.
If you have any doubts about being ready, you probably are not ready.
Sex does not make you cool, nor does it MAKE a guy love you or bring you anything else.
Sex is supposed to be between 2 people whom love eachother, are commited and mature enough to handle EVERYTHING that comes with that responsability. Sex is an adult thing, not childs play.
Never allow anyone to force you or try to overly convince you to have sex .. It is your body and you need to respect it now.
IF he says he will love you or love you more if you do it with him... he is lying, that phrase and sex do not go hand in hand if you are not in a commited and serious relationship... a relationship is much deeper than just dating for a couple days or weeks.
IF you chose to do it, get on birthcontrol first, meaning the pill or other reliable method PLUS use condoms, since the pill does NOT protect you from STDs or STIs or other bad infections that can happen from having sex.
IF you feel you are ready to have sex, then be adult enough and mature enough to get on birth control and that also includes talking to a parent or other trusted adult. IF you feel you need to hide it or lie about it, then you are 110% NOT READY to have sex.
If he is slow, gentle and there is enough lubricatioon it should not hurt very much and there may or may not be light bleeding. It may not be good the first time, but with practice it will get better. BUT at 14.. you still have so much time and so much life to live before you complicate things with sex. Live your childhood first. |
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preciious
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| Posted: 08/24/07 - 13:50 Post subject: |
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Well, I hope you didn't already go ahead and do it by the time I'm gettin around to responding, but, INFO for you and everyone else who reads this:
DO NOT SLEEP WITH ANYONE WHOM YOU DO NOT WANT TO POSSIBLY BE THE PARENT OF YOUR CHILD AND HAVE TO DEAL WITH FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!
This from someone who sees it first hand daily, in my family and community with young girls in love, young ladies in college, and even newly married couples.
Your virginity is a beautiful thing! It' s ok if you don't realize yet, just respect it and honor it. Your friend will respect you for it (if it's that kind of relationship).  |
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yasir007
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| Posted: 09/02/07 - 07:46 Post subject: |
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| sex at this age??? dats crazy...i guess ure too young rite now... wat if u get pregnant??u know that condoms are not 100% .. so why take the risk?? |
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