Scared of being pregnant...possible symptoms?

beemer16 · Newbie Joined: 04 Jan 2007 Posts: 4 Location: wherever

Hey there. So my boyfriend and I had sex without a condom during my period about a month ago. He pulled out of course. So that frightened me quite a bit. Then about a week and a half later we got carried away and did that again but stopped A LOT sooner. yet right after i pulled away...literally like 10 seconds later he came. Ive been scared ever since. Ive never really been one to keep track of my period..like when i got it and when itll come next.(weird i know...and i know i definitely should be anyway!) but yeahh so im totally estimating on when i should be getting my next period. It shouldnt come any later than 2 days from now(Jan. 6th). And i think even that may be pushing it. but again im not entirely sure. Ive had just some sliight symptoms of pregnancy though. Like slightly sore breasts..(which i do get before my period) and now this light cramping in my lower abdomen which i have had for about 4 days now? on and off kinda but nothing too painful. sometimes i wonder if im just being paranoid too though. Yet the cramping usually doesnt happen before my period though. im extremely afraid because i am only 17! how strong is the possibility that i could be pregnant? is there still a chance im not at all?! ive been really freaking out the past 4 or 5 days ow and i know that doesnt help...but im scared!

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I'm on the same boat Neutral

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it's like me too. only we didn't try to do it we were just fooling around and it slipped it. i guess it turned him on and he thrusted 5 more times before i made him pull out. that was 2 weeks ago, and the last time i had my period was the weekend 17th to whatever date in Feb. (i also don't keep track) i still think im over reacting but i should've gotten my period 4-6 days ago! im really scared cause im only 16 .. and he's a senior, so even if i DO get pregnant it's not like he's going to stick around and help me go through it.

i don't know maybe im over reacting, but im with you on this Smile

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I'm only 16 and he is 21. We has sex on the 21st of this month and i should of started my period a week ago. I'm soo afraid to be pregnate with his kid. I know he might be ready for it, but i'm not. Honestly I don't want him in my life for the next 18 years!!! I hate him, but I won't do this alone.

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im in the same boat me andmy bf had sex thrusday may 10th andi was surpose to start my period tuesday or wednesday andstill nothing and the sad thing is i know when im gonna get mine because im on birth control i know its not 100% effective but dang it this sucks and me and him have talked about it and he told me no matter what the out come he will be there for me but in all honesty im not ready for a child

fadingxpolaris · Newbie Joined: 17 May 2007 Posts: 41

I too am in the same boat, I'm 17 and I am almost 100% sure I am pregnant, just waiting for that late period.

You could just be freaking yourself out, I mean those are the same symptoms as before a period, and the cramping could be coming this time due to stress or something?
All you can do is wait really.

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Ok well... I had sex with my bf about 3 weeks ago.
I had just finished my period thee day before.
We used a condom but the thing is he was putting it on thee
wrong way, then he just flipped it over and we didnt
even think about there being pre-cum on the tip of the
condom. I've been really stressing over this. I have minor
cramping, and my breast feel heavier than usual. I also have
to urinate frequently and i have been extremely emotional.
Its not time for my period yet. its still like one more week
till my period but im getting all these signs a bit too early.
I really dont want to be pregnant. I'm also only 17 So i've
been stressing a lot. Could stress also be thee reason as to
why im getting all these symptoms? Cause i've been feeling
these things for about 5 days now. And i still have no period
so im not so sure if its PMS or first signs of pregnancy.
Please SOmeone Please try and help me with this!!!

Its also still too soon to take a pregnancy test.

COuld all this be caused by stress???!!!

HElp!!

Crying or Very sad

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There are a number of things that can cause the symptoms you described. Yes, one of them is pregnancy. However there are many other possibilities. Most of the posts here point to something else on the fact that it's far to early to be showing symptoms of pregnancy. First and foremost you should always use a condom! Always... I cannot stress this enough. If you don't want to use a condom you -need- to seek another form of protection. Be it a patch, pill, injection or so on.

Moving on...

There are also many reasons why your period could be late. Stress, Illness, Change in Medication, Poor weight (Over or underweight), Menopause... to name a few. The cramping of course also could be for many reasons. Such as gas, appendicitis, gallbladder disease, hunger, over eating, colon cancer...again to name a few.

If you are truly worried my advice is that you speak with a parent. I know this is an end of your world option but it is your best one. There is always the option of a center though. They will test you and counsel you on what to do next. They will also offer very much the same advice I already have.

I personally have very chaotic periods. Mine will occur right on time every month and then four months later it will be two weeks late. It took me a while to get used to this and I often thought I was pregnant. Most of the time it was me stressing that I was pregnant that made me have the symptoms.

I will admit that I was having unprotected sex at the time. I later had a son... Unprotected sex will almost always lead to pregnancy so if you're trying to avoid that then wise up and protect yourself. He's not going to do it for you.

In there end there is only one surefire way to tell if your pregnant. Visit your doctor. You can also take the at home test and the results will be pretty trust worthy.

I hope this helps and best of luck to you and all.

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okay, im only 14 and i had unprotected sex.
and its only been like 5 days but i smoke and drink and do drugs.
and like whenever i do these things i get this really bad pain in my stomic. and i am so scared that its because im preg? like the boy i did it with was 17. and i dont even know he didnt cum or anything, but people were telling me something about pre juices or something like that. and like there is just always this bad pain in my stomic now. can someone please pleas please help me im bagging anyone.
but we did shit in the woods so do you think i just might ill off of something?
ive been really stressing this!

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So, me and my boyfriend [17&18] had sex a few times, but he had the condom on and it didn't pop. I don't keep track of my period, but I think I should been having it this week, or next. I've been having cramps, and I had a huge one a couple days ago. Is that a huge sign I am NOT pregnant? For the most part, I'm just being paranoid. My vagina has even been like giving bubbles that I'm having my period, but I'm really not. Do you get those when you are pregnant? Am I just being paranoid?

Scared of being pregnant...possible symptoms?

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