She never gives herself enough time to orgasm, what can i do

charly2006 · Newbie Joined: 15 Mar 2008 Posts: 1

I have been engaging in sexual activites with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. I love giving her oral but it never last longer than 10 minutes before she pulls me back up and tells me to stop.

I tried asking her about why she doesnt let me cary on and sometimes shes worried that im not enjoying it, other times she wants to engage in sex rather than continue with the oral.
She says that its not my bad technique, but for whatever reason, she never lets me give her oral long enough for her to orgasm.
Shes never had an orgasm before and i dont like bringing the subject up incase she feels like shes under pressure to orgasm which is not the case

ive tried absolutely everything, the right atmosphere, suducing the mind, taking it slow and teasing, dirty talking, but every single time, after about 5 to 10 minutes shell pull me back up and tells me to stop, even though i want to carry on

Basically, i dont think shes giving it long enough for her to orgasm and if she hasnt climaxed after about 10 minutes, she gives up and tells me to either stop, or have sex

How long does it usually take for a girl to orgasm? and also how can i stop her from stopping me giving her oral? i dont want to seem forcefull, i just want to give her pleasure

thanks for the help

healthfreak88 · Posted: 03/15/08 - 10:29 Post subject:

The time it takes for a girl to orgasm differs from girl to girl. It takes me a while to orgasm, while my girlfriend can do it in less than 2 minutes.

I'm REALLY in to dominatrix stuff. This is would be great for you because you can be loving yet forceful at the same time. Buy a pair of handcuffs, a blindfold, maybe a whip.

OR

Why not buy a clitoral stimulator? I know some men have a problem with these because they feel like they need to do it--at least that's how my girlfriend is. Anyway, this would make her orgasm come a little faster.

I don't know why your girlfriend doesn't want to orgasm. It will be the greatest feeling ever!!

I hope I've helped at least a little bit!!

GOOD LUCK!!

--LinZ

Lymka · Newbie Joined: 15 Nov 2007 Posts: 29

To be honest it sounds like she's lying.
When preforming oral make sure you stay near the clit... it helps =]

Also personally it's a lot easier for me and it feels just as good for my girlfriend when I finger her.

She never gives herself enough time to orgasm, what can i do

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