Soft Erection! How Can I Stay Hard?

citrusv5 · Newbie Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Posts: 1

I am almost 18 years old and I have been masturbating since around the age of 13. This past year I recently have had a girlfriend and all things have been going fine. Except whenever she goes down my pants my erection will be hard at first, but then slowly get softer and softer until its totally gone almost instantly. During oral sex my erection will be very soft but a little hard, but the second she stops giving me oral sex it goes limp. I also notice its harder when she is giving me a hand job. Even with these soft erections I was always able to ejaculate and it never seemed to be a problem until we have tried to have sex. We have only be successful once out of I'd say ten times, because my penis is to limp to go inside. We both want to really bad but it never happens. I've been told maybe to stop masturbating for a while but I dont no. I think i'm too young for Viagra. This is constantly on my mind, and I feel like im letting her down extrmemly.

Please help me.

Thank You

SIBO · Newbie Joined: 29 Dec 2006 Posts: 3

hello my friend.. Im had the same problem and im 21 ! i was told to stop mastrubating for like at least 2 weeks ! and eat like almost eveyday fresh food without oil, seafood and stuff like that.healthy food i mean. most important to eat vegtabels..all kind of it. Another thing when she is doing something to u like a blowjob or when u insert it just think about being horny and excitment.dont let ur thinking go away and instead enjoy everymoment. try to excercise 2 tims a week.
Just dont think about it,it will make u worse. Just relax ! seriously stop mastrubating and stop watching porn. thats my advice and it worked for me.

PS: Dont forget to tell me the result !

take care

Guest · Guest

yeh im 17 and i have the same exact problem i will get hard then when i go to try to have sex it will go limp then i cant get it up at all after that and i feal like a fagget after that i have done that with 3 different girls and i dont know what to do so now i dont even wanna have sex and i have no sex drive

coco123 · Newbie Joined: 06 Jan 2007 Posts: 1

I'm 18 and in the same problem as many of you... Don't worry too much because this is a problem most men have, but don't really talk about it. Mostly this problem can be fixed by a change in lifestyle and stress relief.
Basically you need to have a daily exercise program for an oxigen rich blood, because collagen levels build up in lethargic people. And of course forgetting about stress... The pressure that someone might break into the room during intercourse affects your subconcious. And the rest depends on you... Only you know what really bothers you, try to forget about it.
Allso try directing your partner to do what you like. You allso need high testosterone levels... This can be achieved through not masturbating for a while.
But NEVER have great expectations... You won't ALWAYS be succesful, and if you aren't, don't be that upset. Humans have to learn everything, there is no sexual instinct telling you exactly what to do. Experience comes with trial and error.
Anyway... Keep on posting...

Guest · Guest

yeah it really sux with this but I guess if you want it bad enough you'll stop jacking off and watching porn. thats what I think personally.

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