To much Masturbation in relationships

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I have just started to see this amazing guy which isnt the problem. We have sex every weekend sometimes more then once, but we just had a talk and he has told me that he finds himself masturbating almost every day and some times 3 - 4 times a day. He said its because when ever he thinks about me it makes him hard and he just does it... Is this a sign of obession or is it kinda normal?
Sex with him is amazing but i am just a little worried incase he is obsessed instead of falling in love and if so is it a problem?
What can i do to help him? More sex or just run away lol?

DanDan · Supporter Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 209

You should just relax...everybody masturbates no matter whether they are in relation or not, married or not.....remember....we all masturbate...some more some less and it has nothing to do with falling in love or any other feeling we may have towards out girls.

Masturbations is normal and it is ok....and you shouldn't feel insulted that he is masturbating besides having great sex with you! It doesn't mean he is not enjoying sex with you, he probably does. These things are separated. Think of yourself.

Do you masturbate sometimes? Does it interfere with your thoughts or emotions or love for a guy?

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dandan is right. masturbation is necessary, with or without sex. and that when he thinks of you he does it, in my opinion is a good sign. dont worry. just dont try to compare yourself or anyone else with him. everyone's different.
why don't you help him masturbate?! for example using the phone and having some sexy talks! it's fun!

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Chances are he isn't obsessed. Chances are that he's thinking about other girls while he does it and he tells you a half-lie to keep you from getting upset with him.

Nothing wrong with that either and you shouldn't be upset. Just because he finds other girls attractive sexually doesn't mean he doesn't love you. There's a difference between thinking about other people while masturbating and cheating.

stubby2211 · Newbie Joined: 09 Mar 2008 Posts: 63 Location: Nauvoo, AL

Im a guy and I masturbate quite frequently. But, I have to say that when I am in a serious relationship, I actually do it more. I can have sex with her and then come home and masturbate by thinking about the sex I just had with her. So dont worry about it, we are just horny guys!

To much Masturbation in relationships

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