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SwizzBeatz609
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 Posted: 03/17/07 - 15:05 Post subject: Unprotected Sex, Withdrawal method |
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| Nobody had the same problem as me so i thought i'd post this. Im 15, me and my girlfriend always had unprotected sex and i pulled out. She never missed her period and we had intercourse a lot. Well we almost went out for a year and i saw her with another guy. I'm positive they did not do anything sexual, they just kissed, but, i broke up with her. We had sex a few times after that. She told me she missed her period and was scared. She took a pregnancy test, (CVS brand) and said it came out positive but I did not see it. I don't think she would lie about something liek that but she said she loved me very much and she is VERY DESPERATE to go back out so I can picture her doing something like this, anyway, a few days after we were having intercourse and out of no where a little blood went on the condom (I brought one just in case) we stopped having intercourse to check it out. She said the blood was darker then usual. She just got her first period at the beginning of this year. She told me they started to be regular but i wasn't sure. Everytime I tell her to come here and take a pregnancy test she comes but never takes it and makes up an excuse (no ride/money etc). I want to know if shes lying so if it is I can leave her for good and I am going to have her took it soon but I was wondering if that could mean pregnancy. I know my body very well and know when too pull out and nothing like this happened in the 6 months we had intercourse while dating. Please help! P.S She hasn't really been having symptons, she said she was nauseas a few times to me but she never had Unbearable pains/Tender Breasts. She also was bleeding today and has been since. |
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| Posted: 03/18/07 - 01:10 Post subject: |
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| Precum can cause pregnancy even if you pull out in time, precum is not noticelbe by the males, meaning they dont it its there or can feel it coming out..Precum does contain sperm with can cause pregnancy, since sperm can live inside a womens body anywhere from 3 to 7 days at the latest...If she is bleeding today heavly and has been for a couple days, chances are its her period and shes not pregnant...Some females may bleed for the first couple months while others donot....Pregancy syptoms can show up as early as a week to as late as four, she doesnt have to have all the signs to be pregnant, she could have one or all, and even some dont expeiance any syptoms at all, me being one of those people....Ride it out, have her take a test if she will with you being there to see the results, If she doesnt I guess you will know if she is in 9 months or can tell that she is getting bigger!! Wish You Lots of Luck!! |
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| Posted: 05/26/08 - 07:37 Post subject: precum does NOT contain sperm |
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| You're wrong Indiana Gal. Some men begin to ejaculate before they have an orgasm (which is what's dangerous about the pullout method), however, precum does NOT contain sperm. |
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| Posted: 05/26/08 - 21:29 Post subject: |
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Read the sticky on the precum subject. Even scientists find this subject very contraversial...I am one of those people that have gotten pregnant on the "pull out " method but at the same time if what he is saying is true and he really does have that much control(hard to believe in a 15 yr old) AND he didnt recently ejaculate I am more inclined to think its not likely she became pregnant...
Add the fact she wants you back so desperately (its sad how many girls make up pregnancy to "trap" boyfriends, or worse how many trick them into pregnancy), she was bleeding )i am thinking this is her period) You didnt see the test, she won't take another and she just happens to turn up pregnant now. I would be demanding solid proof
btw- dont stay with her if you dont like her- it really is of no benifit to the baby. If by some miracle she is pregnant and its yours help her in baby related things but anything more than that isn't doing anyone any good. I bet when you make it clear you will be there for the child but not for her this baby will disappear. I am thinking "miscarriage" for the baby that never existed...i have seen it way too often.
Good luck and HAve her take a test, buy it for her and have it take it with you there!! this is your right. and if she won't do it you have no reason to believe her...let me know how it turns out |
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