Very Early Pregnancy Symptoms - Abdominal Pressure/cramping?

itsonlyme · Guest

well i went to the doctor 2 weeks ago for the pain they were concerned that it may be an eptopic pregnancy but it wasnt so that was great news i started to exepct that everything happens for a reason and that this baby was brought to me for a reason. started to get happy and exected about this baby, woke up yeasterday morning went to the bathroom and the toilet was filled with blood, went into the emergancy room and found out that i had an incomplete abortion, i feel so lost and am having such a hard time understanding what reason god could have for giving me this baby and then making me loose it, i dont think it has really hit yet i havent cried im just numb, im in sever pain but emotionaly numb. the doctor suggested i have a dnc done in the next two days, i went back to the emergancy room around 11 last night due to high fever and server cramping adominal pain, the doctor said he dosnt want to do a dnc because of the complications that i will pass it out naturally but i have to go back in two days because if it doesnt all pass naturally it could kill me, i dont know how to tell my four yr old she was so exicted and so happy to be a big sister, i was 8 weeks and when the did the ultra sound yeasterday both times i swear i heard the babys heart beat but how could that be if its dead, im trying to understand how this happened what i did, if it was because of my endemitrosis or was it due to the stress or was it something i did and if so what. there also telling me that i need to take off work for my health but im a manager at a restaurant and im hourly not salery i took off last night and tonight but i work 6 days a week and if i take anymore off i wont have a paycheck so how can i take care of the daughter i have. does anybody have any advice for me should i let it pass naturaly im not bleeding heavy and i only not having big clots i look in the toilet everytime but cant see anything. (sorry i know its gross)or have the dnc, when will i start to grieve im sad but i cant cry. how can i find out the cause meaning is it something i did how soon before i can try again i despertly want more children and i know with my endemitrosis the longer i wait the harder my chances are. i just dont know what to do. Crying or Very sad

unsure · Guest

hi im 14 and i think my freind maybe be pregenant because her period is late and she had recnetly had sex and is suffering abodominal pain. is she pregnant because we don't no wat to do

azthenia · Posted: 09/14/06 - 15:00 Post subject:

Hi unsure

The only thing you can do really is take a HPT after her missed period and it should be accurate. Your friend should be using protection such as condoms and there is also birth control

Guest

yes stress can be very harmful to a baby! it can make the baby deformed or even kill it which i know you probly dont want that to happen so.. quit stressing in sake of your babys life. trust me its worth it.

amanda · Guest

Hi, my name is Amanda and I just turned 22 and I had missed my period for about 2 weeks but then I started getting a light pink brown looking color for about 2 days or so. Then I began bleeding a little heavier. I bleed for about 4 days. My period is usually longer than that but I really dont know. I went to the doctor and took a urine pregnacy test, but it came out NEG. But for some reason I still think I might be pregnet? Could I still be pregnet? I had had a couple more symptoms like moodswings, the bleeding I got, feeling like my stomache was empty when I had just ate and feeling like throwing up, but never threw up? If you could please answer or help I would appriciate it! Thank you!!

Guest · Posted: 10/23/06 - 12:40 Post subject:

I know when I was just pregnant with my first child I had sever pains in my abdomen to the point where I couldnt walk sit or even stretch out. I crawled into the hospital and they did all sorts of tests on me including an IV Ultrasound. Turns out everything was fine it was just the legaments in my stomach stretching because I had such tight muscles that right away they were stretched. But as everyone else stated do go to the doctor and get checked!!!

stacey marie · Guest

hi all,me and my partner have been trying for a baby for 5 years i have never used any thing,i dont understand how i cant be pregnant.i have a child of my own with someone else.and who i am with now has no children.at the momenti cant stop eating and going to the toilet,are they early signs.please help me ,kind reards stacey

Guest · Posted: 10/25/06 - 10:57 Post subject:

hey guys, I'm really freaking out here...ok, I'm 23 years old and just got engaged, I love my fiance so much and we've been together for a long time. I have always been on the pill, I started 9 years ago because of painful cramps but recently (around the end of september) I decided to forgo the pills because of how sick they were making me, I bought a box of condoms and was good to go....so I thought. One night my guy were fooling around and when we got to 'that point" I told him to put a condom on, he promised he'd pull out and because I was so into things I let it happen. He pulled out in time but I have been freaking out ever since. My best friend just found out she's pregnant so my guy is VERY careful now (even pulls out while wearing a condom!!!) but I'm terrified that the damage is already done. I started getting a lot of slippery discharge, like if I was wearing pj bottoms my legs would get all sticky and I'd feel really uncomfortable, I feel really weak and tired and then came down with a terrible cold. A few days ago I started feeling a dull ache on my left side of my abdomen, now it's a sharp pain that spreads down my leg and is unbearable especially when I cough. I can't get into see my doctor until next week and really don't want to spend $20 on a pregnancy test if I'm just being paranoid!!! I really hope I'm not tho, I want kids someday but I just got my wedding dress and there's no way I'd be able to fit into it if I am!!! Thanks guys

Guest · Posted: 11/15/06 - 03:58 Post subject: To be or not to be

Hi All

Pregnant or not pregnant...that seems to be the question. 9 days ago my husband and i spent a fantastic night together...needless to say that it was my most fertile period around that time. 2 days after our night together i had this large quantity of clear watery mucus and since then i've been having cramps as peculiar to the ones i have for premenstrual. i've been feeling very quesy in the afternoon, weepy and emotional and i've been eating without end. the latest in abdominal discomfort, its not painful and you can't ignore it either...i've also come to learn that sometimes women are so desparate to be pregnant that their minds fool their bodies into manifesting pregnancy signs and symptons...my mind has been obsessing too. my period is due within seven days.

Guest · Guest

I just found out I am about 3-4 weeks pregnant, I have been having cramps like I am going to have my period for about a week and 1/2 now and I just want to know if this is normal? Anyone who has had a child before please let me know. Thanks!

Very Early Pregnancy Symptoms - Abdominal Pressure/cramping?

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