Posted: 03/18/07 - 23:50 Post subject: Virginity counts after marriage
I had sex with my ex-boyfriend but does not want my future husband to know if I ever had sex because that would ruin my relationship. Can I do something that can help me in not letting my future husband to ever know I had sex before. Its been more than a year now and wonders if I will have pain after having sex with my future husband still or have bleeding too.
Thanks
I recommend telling him. If he trusts you to tell him everything honestly you will have a stronger marriage. I know there are things I wanted to conceal to the girl I am about to marry.... but I can tell you the relief you have of knowing your partner knows everything and that their not gonna freak out when they find out which is always possible is the best feeling in the world. I know this isn't the answer you were looking for, I just know this is something I contemplated and was in fear of for months and now I'm engaged with a girl I have loved for 4 years and only finally got to start dating back in may.
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