What Are Abortion Side Effects?

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2723

I answered your question in a previous post.

IT will hurt unless you find a clinic that offers IV anesthesia.

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Abortion is a strong thing that affects many women today! i feel that abortion is wrong in the fact that everyone should have the chance to live and make their own choices. Just like we have the choice our babies should have the choice. I dont believe it is up to you to decide life or death who made you god? the real question is are you retarded? Killing two of your babies and saying you had no problem you are a killer! If you cannot take responsability for your actions then shut your damn legs! you know sex leads to pregnecy than make wise decisions! i am 18 and would never be so stupid to kill a living thing! the heart starts beating 18 days after conception! i believe women should have the right to choose what they want with their bodies but when it affects another human then that right is taken away! this should not be a form of birth control your a killer if you think this is okay ! at least you can do adoption and then everyone will be happy! grow up and shut your legs or at least go get a condom what is it like 25 cents at your local gas station...hmmm.. i am senior in high school and i have more intelligence than you!

Faun24 · Newbie Joined: 17 Feb 2007 Posts: 26 Location: Ohio

People have the right to thier own opinions, opinions are perfectly ok as long as they dont harbor anger and resentment. Healthcare professionals have the knowledge needed to offer non coercive advice to women seeking to make a decision such as abortion. Carifarey is being bombarded with angry, resentful and inappropriate commetary. Strictly pro choice people should take time to empathize with women facing such a choice. I was always against abortion completely. I am a twenty four year old psychology student in my junior year I had been dating a man for several months who was planning to ask me to marry him this summer. I had been having health problems and then found out I was pregnant, struggling to adjust to this reality and thinking my significant other was completely happy about our pregnancy as he so adamantly claimed he was, I planned to transfer schools move in with him because he asked me if I would. Suddenly last week he called me to tell me that he never loved me, he doesnt want the baby, he wants me to have an abortion. I was shocked and hurt, I am now in a state of disbelief and on top of that I found out that I am carrying a virus that has been affecting the developemt of my baby. I never though I would be in a position like this. Maybe that is the point....When I walked into the clinic for my first appointment the protesting was horrific, I cried the entire time, on the inside however, the staff were nothing but informative and supportive. This isnt something I want to do, but my education is terribly important to me. I also was raped when I was eighteen and had a baby girl who was adopted by my sister who has two children of her own and is on assistance. Considering the stress and psychological duress I know I would not be capable of going through having another child and being faced with caring for them properly by myself (which I cant do untill I am out of school) I also couldnt take losing another baby through adoption. I saw many other women there and for the first time realized what it was like to be placed in someone elses shoes, a position I never expected to be in. For the people who are saying needlessly harsh things about abortion, have you ever been in those shoes, and if so is it possible that your own guilt is making you feel judgemental toward others? Either way being so angry and hauling so many negative emotions into an already controversial subject states clearly that there are biased, judgemental feelings involved probably due to a lack of well informed reasearch. You shouldnt bring those elements into a conversation like this, it isnt only hurtful to other people it isnt productive. Judging people is certainly wrong, it creates false ideas and facilitates poor communication. No one knows what it is like to live another persons life, you should try your best to empathize and excercise compassion, and for those of you who believe in GOD and Jesus, thats what they would do. For those of you who dont it is still the correct response because anger and resentment break down communication channels.

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2723

I am sorry that you contracted such a virus Faun =(

You know, I do work in a clinic, and I see women everyday that have a baby, placed a baby for adoption, or just never thought that they would need an abortion.

I never really thought much about abortion at all, until I became pregnant. I had always assumed that birth control would not fail for me, because I am in the healthcare field, I kinda placed my knowledge on a pedastel, if you will.
Well, it does happen, you could get pregannt after a tubal ligation Confused

Men have it easy, they can just leave, they can decide that they no longer want anything to do with us, and we are left to pick up the pieces.

I am married, but we feel that children are not for us.

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And what exactly happened to original subject of this post??? But I must say half of the peopl4e better pull their head out their ass. Making abortions illegal would just make us go back to back alley way abortions and many women dying of infection (look it up). Anyway if the person who started this post is still looking here’s my advice.

I had an abortion 3 months ago and suffering side affects but that’s only because I’m small built and young. The sooner you have an abortion is better if you decide to go down that road it’s a lot safer since the earliest type next to the morning after pill is a medical abortion. Which is just shutting down the hormone the fetish needs to live and flushes it out. They are all sorts of side affects but you get informed about them before you even start the treatment.
Don’t listen to anyone here you’re always gunna have people screaming yes and no at you. In the end it’s your choice and no one else’s not even your partners. At the end of the day it’s you who’d have to carry a child and raise it he could just walk out.

Birth control is murder??? Huh? Hunny do you know what birth control dose it shuts off the hormone for any of your eggs to be fertilised. Meaning they never get fertilised in the first place or would menstruating count as murder because discharged eggs are unfertilised and die? Sorry but if you wanna look at it that way your gunna get it hitting you in the face.
Birth control doesn’t always work there is a small percentage that it wont but it is small. It’s just the same for condoms they don’t work 3% of the time. Just to clear that up.

Having teen girls tell their parents inst always the best idea I was forced in mine when my mum found out. And before any starts saying I should have kept my legs shut the night where the baby was conceded lacked my consent. And not all teen girls are that naive to look for a ‘easy way out’.

So inclosing all you women that come on here screaming how abortion is murder and telling everyone about these side affects. Every coincided that women here who are suffering from depression of the termination might read it?? Your not helping so don’t throw it in peoples faces. You make me sick.

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"Carifairy"

There are a grand total of 15 women on the "stories" list on your website. A survey was taken from 1,900 women who had abortions asking if they had any negative side effects caused by their abortion. 94% answered "Yes" and 2% answered "No." Those two percent are probably the ladies on your site.

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I say dont do it. I got it done 7 years back, and I dont know what I was thinking! I have a child now, but I regret having an abortion to this day. I want another child and it is becoming sooo hard getting pregnant now - I am also much older than before. But may be thats God's way of teaching me a lesson.

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I had an abortion when I was 17. My periods happen randomly even before having sex. It happen 5 times a year,once a year, or maybe all the months in the year. But I dont have a steady cycle. I didnt know I was pregnant at the time cause my periods are random. Me and my boyfriend discussed it and had the abortion. My parents didnt force me they asked me "Do you want to have the child?". My parents were on my side 100% my boyfriend parents not so much but they got over it. My family is not wealthy his family is not wealthy. I didnt regret my abortion.
I am 19 turning 20. Even though I am still young I still have the right to have intercourse with the one I love. I am still with him us being together for 5 years now. Maybe in the future we might have children. But now we are not ready. People do make mistakes.As well as condom and such fail too. Our condoms have broke numerous times on us.

Heres some stories I have about adoption and disabled children.

Adoption isn't always the right answer. All the people I come across who are adopted are miserable. My examples are people I have encountered. One was adopted 8 times never had a steady adoptee parents they either divorced, died, sent to jail. All the negative problems happened to him. Another girl wealthy family but the parents are crazy and pshsically abuse her everyday.

Child with disablity? I know a family who has a disabled child. They get so much money from the goverment. You know what they do with that money? They take HER money and spend it on themselves. They only give her $20 of HER money to buy music c.d's. She also has a job but they take her paychecks and spend it on themselves.

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lopresti you copy and pasted what you posted directly from a website that isn't even credible. I'm sick of prolifers shoving the same thing down our throats all of the time (we're murderers!! we're going to be depressed and bleed forever!! we're all going to die! we're terrible people). TIMES ARE CHANGING AND PEOPLE HAVE A CHOICE NOW- THAT'S A GOOD THING.

No one should base their life on what "should have" and "could have" been. When I think about this I do see why people think it's cruel, but I hope you people who are getting abortions also realize that this child has no memories, no experiences and no feelings. It's not like you're killing someone who's been exposed to the real world or humanity in the first place.

My best friends sister had an abortion and went on to have a kid only a year later. She's perfectly happy. She was upset for about a month afterwards and then moved on- the timing wasn't right for her.

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I would like to know how many of you who have had an abortion currently have children.

You may not regret it now, but some day you will wonder how you could have done it after looking into a newborn's eyes. Anyone who argues that life doesn't exist at the moment of conception, obviously has never given birth.

To those who have had several abortions, I wonder isn't there a more effective birth control available? Deeper issues must be at play here. - not just the issue of choice.

What Are Abortion Side Effects?

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