What can i use for anal lube thats safe?

Sweetcarol · Newbie Joined: 23 Jan 2007 Posts: 59

hi i was wondering what i can use for anal lube during masturbation, i cant really buy actual lube cuz my parents are always with me when i go to the store and i dont want them asking me why i need it....so is there anything SAFE i can use as anal lube that wont irritate me?

luvtits69 · Newbie Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 3

use olive oil, not vaseline, and make sure it's pure olive oil

also is you ever can get your hands on some lube make sure it isn't just any kind, it has to be water-based

thedoctorisin · Newbie Joined: 22 Mar 2007 Posts: 113

Olive oil is almost certain to irritate your butt if you use it as lube, because your anus isn't meant to be simmered in olive oil. You MUST use a water-based lube (like KY or Astroglide) and leave the olive oil in the skillet.

Sweetcarol · Newbie Joined: 23 Jan 2007 Posts: 59

hmmm so many different opinions....whos right Embarassed

cand86 · Newbie Joined: 01 Jun 2007 Posts: 2

If you're looking to simply masturbate and play alone, then most things will be okay for you. Of course, an actual lube, made especially for anal play, will be your best bet, but being a kid under watchful eyes, I know it's hard to do. Still, some other items work great.

I personally haven't tried olive oil, because, well, it's expensive enough that I'd rather cook with it than use it sexually, because it has a particular, distinctive odor, and because it really is rather thin- not what you're looking for in anal lubrication. I do hear that some people like it, though.

Better would be something a bit thicker, like some softened (room temperature) butter, or, better yet, Crisco (shortening). Crisco really is famous for this sort of thing- it's been used as anal play grease for forever, because it's good and works well. In fact, Crisco probably is your best bet, simply because butter, as a dairy product, does have the tendency to have some bacteria in it and the ability to spoil- you don't want anything funky happening in your tush.

So I recommend Crisco- it's soft and smooth, not too thin, fairly odorless (though not completely), and should be lying around the house (if not . . . just tell mom and dad you want to bake some cookies with a recipe you found- bake the cookies, and take the rest of the Crisco upstairs!).

In a pinch, I've had fair results with various lotions that I've had on hand, although they do have their drawbacks (they're often scented, may be irritating inside, and dry up very quickly).

Basically, do a little experimentation. If you're worried about irritation, dab a little of whatever you want to use on your anus and let it sit for about ten or fifteen minutes and see how it feels. If it starts burning, even mildly, give it up! And of course other skin reactions are a bad sign. Otherwise, feel free to use it, although I highly recommend giving yourself a good cleaning out afterwards. Since none of these things are actually made specifically for being put up your butt, there's no guarantee on their safety, so take some old soap and water and wash it all away when you're done.

Now, if you're looking to play with a partner and want to do it safely, you really ought use a professional lube, because olive oil, butter, and Crisco alike will "eat through" your condoms/dental dams, leaving them useless in preventing STD and disease transmission.

Hope that helps!

cand86 · Newbie Joined: 01 Jun 2007 Posts: 2

If you're looking to simply masturbate and play alone, then most things will be okay for you. Of course, an actual lube, made especially for anal play, will be your best bet, but being a kid under watchful eyes, I know it's hard to do. Still, some other items work great.

I personally haven't tried olive oil, because, well, it's expensive enough that I'd rather cook with it than use it sexually, because it has a particular, distinctive odor, and because it really is rather thin- not what you're looking for in anal lubrication. I do hear that some people like it, though.

Better would be something a bit thicker, like some softened (room temperature) butter, or, better yet, Crisco (shortening). Crisco really is famous for this sort of thing- it's been used as anal play grease for forever, because it's good and works well. In fact, Crisco probably is your best bet, simply because butter, as a dairy product, does have the tendency to have some bacteria in it and the ability to spoil- you don't want anything funky happening in your tush.

So I recommend Crisco- it's soft and smooth, not too thin, fairly odorless (though not completely), and should be lying around the house (if not . . . just tell mom and dad you want to bake some cookies with a recipe you found- bake the cookies, and take the rest of the Crisco upstairs!).

In a pinch, I've had fair results with various lotions that I've had on hand, although they do have their drawbacks (they're often scented, may be irritating inside, and dry up very quickly).

Basically, do a little experimentation. If you're worried about irritation, dab a little of whatever you want to use on your anus and let it sit for about ten or fifteen minutes and see how it feels. If it starts burning, even mildly, give it up! And of course other skin reactions are a bad sign. Otherwise, feel free to use it, although I highly recommend giving yourself a good cleaning out afterwards. Since none of these things are actually made specifically for being put up your butt, there's no guarantee on their safety, so take some old soap and water and wash it all away when you're done.

Now, if you're looking to play with a partner and want to do it safely, you really ought use a professional lube, because olive oil, butter, and Crisco alike will "eat through" your condoms/dental dams, leaving them useless in preventing STD and disease transmission.

Hope that helps!

Sweetcarol · Newbie Joined: 23 Jan 2007 Posts: 59

thanks ur post helps a lot =]

sylar casio · Newbie Joined: 06 Oct 2007 Posts: 3

sorry ive read your post and it doesn't really help because i don't think im from the same country and i have NO idea what crisco is. could you tell me?

PhoneutriaFae · Newbie Joined: 18 Oct 2007 Posts: 20

Crisco is a brand of cooking oils, the one they are speaking of is a particular type of shortening, it is used in baking. It is a fluffy white substance, usually made from vegetable oils, it's basically the fat from the oils, look it up on Google, it should give you an idea of what it is.

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