What is your opinion on young marriage?

Ineedalife_221 · Newbie Joined: 07 Feb 2007 Posts: 25

Hello. I was wondering what anyone's opinion is on young marriage. I am very young and i want to marry my boyfriend really bad. I can not imagine being anyone else. The only thing that is stopping me is that I care too much what other people think. I feel that nobody is going to think that we are going to work out because we are young. He's 22 and I am 19. I know that I want to be with him and I always suggest that we should wait a couple of years until we get married. I feel that we will work out because (I know this may sound dumb) our love for eachother is almost crazy. I also realize that nobody knows what their future holds for them. Sh*t happens. What do you all think?

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i think that you are feeling the way you should and i say there is no age on love. i feel the same way about my boyfriend and people say the exact same thing we are tooyoung and blah blah blah!! who cares what everyone else thinks, its what you and the man you have to be with for the rest of your life thinks if you two feel your ready i say do it and you have my blessings everything will work out fine good luck!!!

Ineedalife_221 · Newbie Joined: 07 Feb 2007 Posts: 25

thank you so much...i feel so much better now..

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I got married when I was 17 years, and my boy friend was 21 years. I have 21 years now and I feel that I still love my husband. But his personality change, I changed... although I am not with him I believe that you have to grow up before u get married and not grow up while married. Just really think about marriage its something really big. Just analize the person alot before u marry someone. Even when u think u really know the person it will change in some years.. also they may don't want to achieve nothing in life and maybe you do.
Understand that you are a teenager and you have to know what you will probably grow up of the relationship instead of in it.

BedsonTrudeau · Moderator Joined: 02 Jan 2007 Posts: 793

I got married at 20 years old and my husband was 23. I don't regret a day that I married him. People told me I was too young and was making a mistake. I still love my husband dearly. Only you can know what's best for you. If you know this is something you want and you know that it's right, go with it.

Ineedalife_221 · Newbie Joined: 07 Feb 2007 Posts: 25

thanx..well i know what i want and thats to be with him..it just gets tough when every one is totally doubting us...we dont plan on getting married for a little while but at least now i know that when we do i shouldnt care about what anyone says...

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