When is the best timing for becoming sexualy active?

llanos · Newbie Joined: 18 Jun 2005 Posts: 21

Hi, I am 15 year old and I would like to know when the best timing for becoming sexualy active is?

adaline · Silver Member Joined: 21 Oct 2000 Posts: 239

Hi, I had a problem once since my girlfriend was three years younger than me, she was 16 and we intended to have sex. It was her first time and I was also wondering, when it is not too early. But, we came to conclusion that it is very individually, as some girls grow up very fast and they are becoming sexually active sooner and sooner. Anyway, you need to be aware of sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy. So, the couple should discuss this subject and realize for themselves when is the best timing. Generally, it is sooner for girls than for boys, since girls are more mature than boys.

GrayAngel · Newbie Joined: 15 Dec 2006 Posts: 15

The plane and simple answer is, its time when you feel ready, and your with a partner who you know only cares for you. I know a girl who lost her virginity to a sleaze ball because she thought he loved her, and that just led to mess of problems. So make sure you know exactly what your doing. And talk to you signifigant other, parents, teachers, anyone you trust, and make sure you're not just seeing through eyes clouded by twitterpation. Keep your wits about you. Although if you want the dirty truth. Theres nothing inharently wrong with sex, but it can cause so many issues, expecially at your age. Addiction, heartbreak, std's, your parents could disown you, you could get pregnant. These aren't things you want at your age. Sp follow these rules, always, and I mean ALWAYS, use protection, use a condem and get on the pill if you can, buy spermicidal lube as well. And also, talk to at least one of your parents(or at least a well trusted friend) about this sort of stuff, so you can have someone to lean on.

When is the best timing for becoming sexualy active?

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