Why do you cheat?

karalynn15 · Newbie Joined: 08 Nov 2006 Posts: 12

well i think cheating is totally wrong.. in my opinion it gives bad judgement twords further relationships. i never cheated before but sometimes i feel like my boyfriends been doing odd things behind my back and i find out different ways which make me feel guilty because i go through private materials. well anyways thats my opinion i hoped it helped.

Sweetcarol · Newbie Joined: 23 Jan 2007 Posts: 59

iv cheated a few times, iv always felt bad about it but its just so easy to get into cheating really....it makes me feel better about myself knowing more than one guy likes me i guess and getting extra attention...i know its a terrible thing to do even tho many people do it and i try not to =$

Polish23 · Newbie Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 3

The replies in this thread have irritated me to the point of opening an account just to reply.

Polish23 · Newbie Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 3

You people are disgusting... listen to yourselves...

do you not understand what you are doing? your destroying another human being's dignity, betraying someones faith in you... not to mention your own...

if you want to sleep with someone else, please people, break up with your current partner. All of these excuses like "they make me feel pretty" or "it felt adventurous" are lame excuses for your complete inability to feel or give love.

you openly admit you have cheated and wave it off as if it was normal you are sick, you make me feel like vomiting.

TBUK · Newbie Joined: 16 Jul 2007 Posts: 38

Cheating shows that you dont love your partner and have no respect for them. cheating is disgusting have more respect for yourself and your partner. im in a loving engagment and me and my partner would never cheat because we love and only want each other and to have that in this day and age is special.

blahblahzz · Newbie Joined: 27 Jul 2007 Posts: 7

I dont cheat and never intend on cheating, Im currently single but I dont feel the need to have s*x with every guy that looks at me.

S*x is not a big thing in my life as I have not found my partner, if its true love you would not feel the desire to cheat, if your cheating when you have a bf or gf you do not love them, its a disgusting excuse "its just not fun anymore, Im bored, I want adventure" cmon if you loved them, s*x wouldnt matter, if your not 100% commited, break it up and go have your fun.

My boyfriend cheated on me becuase he was after excitement and some adventure. It was all fun and games until I cuaght him out and it wasnt until the he woke up to the extend of what he was doing and realised what he lossed as a result and dearly paid for it, it was becuase he was cuaght!

I was heart broken and devasted, I trusted him more than anything in the whole world, its a horrible feeling and it makes you check back and think "who can you trust"

ricky23 · Newbie Joined: 05 Aug 2007 Posts: 3 Location: Scotland

love hurts and cheating is but one hurdle you over come... not that i ever cheated, personally i'm content with teh one i choose casue they choose me aswell... is that why i'm single...?

KevDS · Posted: 08/28/07 - 22:13 Post subject:

I have never cheated on any of my girlfriends. I have been cheated on. I have also been the 'other guy' (not proud of it). No sane person cheats in a fulfilling relationship. People that are afraid to be alone cheat more often. Being single is not an option for these people. They move from one relationship into another.. cheating on both sides until ready to dump either chump. Cheating is selfish, disrespectful, immoral, and above all, hurtful/damaging. If you feel the need to cheat, have some stones and end your relationship. If you really love the person you are with, make an effort to address the problems in your relationship and get the spark back. If you want to shatter and destroy people, be a loser and cheat on someone that loves you.

Don't want to be cheated on? Don't get with someone who had a bf/gf when you got together. What goes around comes around!

miserylovescompany · Newbie Joined: 15 Oct 2007 Posts: 3

First off I would like to say that I think it unfair for people to be so harsh in calling people selfish , disgusting etc.
You cannot judge people so quickly. You first need to be in there shoes to understand why. By nature we are not monogomus. It is just something that is expected. Now when you Marry or become involved, yes I agree there is a level of respect to that relationship. But you can look at so many relationships that are open and you may find they are the happiest.. like I said may. I think if people were more open with themselves sexually and what they wanted from their partners and explored with respect of each other , people are less likely to cheat.
I have cheated several different times , with different people and in different times in my life. I know what the reasons are, I cannot say they are good ones. I am not proud of my actions , but I have to say I do find it so hard not to cheat. Everything you get from it at the moment feels so good, but it also does have its negative side, the guilt, the idea of what you did is forever, etc. I am not for cheating, but I will also never judge anyone for doing it.

Polish23 · Newbie Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 3

That is completely irrelevant. You know what people are that cheat? Animals, with no concept of real love. Animals are the ones that act based on instinct. Humans act based on love and reason. You are pathetic, and even worse, blind to the fact of it. And if you think humans arent monogomous by nature, then you dont believe in love and are already a walking shell of a human being, and have resigned the greatest thing in life, which is a deep connection with another, and i am wasting my time typing this. I feel sorry for you.

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