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Why do you cheat?

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PostPosted: 01/05/07 - 20:48    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

I cheated because I am young. I never used to feel guilt until extremely recently.

I decided I wanted to stop the charade.

I realized that I loved the guy I was with.

People cheat because they can. Simple.
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PostPosted: 01/18/07 - 08:00    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

I have cheated before and the reason why i cheated was the feeling of being wanted by someone else. made me feel good and pretty when i wasnt feeling that with the one i was with. I felt guilty after wards all the time i'd come home and and fight with my bf for no reason, if i could turn back time i would and i wouldnt have done it makes you feel cheap and dirty cause your the one actually getting used.
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PostPosted: 01/22/07 - 19:17    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

I cheated becuase I was drunk. I was passed out in a bed at a party and a girl bassicly started to molest me. When I woke up i was kissing her and she had my pants down...I ran to the bathroom and locked myself in there and showerd myself off. The next day I found myself crying at my girlfriends feet. She forgave me but I never forgave myself. I ended the relationship becuase I couldnt go on knowing that I cheated on this women I love. There are many reasons why people cheat and its wrong regardless. I think its horrible and shows signs of weakness in humans.
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PostPosted: 03/11/07 - 23:34    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

well i think cheating is totally wrong.. in my opinion it gives bad judgement twords further relationships. i never cheated before but sometimes i feel like my boyfriends been doing odd things behind my back and i find out different ways which make me feel guilty because i go through private materials. well anyways thats my opinion i hoped it helped.
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PostPosted: 04/25/07 - 14:27    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

iv cheated a few times, iv always felt bad about it but its just so easy to get into cheating really....it makes me feel better about myself knowing more than one guy likes me i guess and getting extra attention...i know its a terrible thing to do even tho many people do it and i try not to =$
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PostPosted: 07/15/07 - 10:06    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

The replies in this thread have irritated me to the point of opening an account just to reply.

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PostPosted: 07/15/07 - 10:12    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

You people are disgusting... listen to yourselves...

do you not understand what you are doing? your destroying another human being's dignity, betraying someones faith in you... not to mention your own...

if you want to sleep with someone else, please people, break up with your current partner. All of these excuses like "they make me feel pretty" or "it felt adventurous" are lame excuses for your complete inability to feel or give love.


you openly admit you have cheated and wave it off as if it was normal you are sick, you make me feel like vomiting.
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PostPosted: 07/17/07 - 17:11    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

Cheating shows that you dont love your partner and have no respect for them. cheating is disgusting have more respect for yourself and your partner. im in a loving engagment and me and my partner would never cheat because we love and only want each other and to have that in this day and age is special.
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PostPosted: 07/27/07 - 06:44    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

I dont cheat and never intend on cheating, Im currently single but I dont feel the need to have s*x with every guy that looks at me.

S*x is not a big thing in my life as I have not found my partner, if its true love you would not feel the desire to cheat, if your cheating when you have a bf or gf you do not love them, its a disgusting excuse "its just not fun anymore, Im bored, I want adventure" cmon if you loved them, s*x wouldnt matter, if your not 100% commited, break it up and go have your fun.

My boyfriend cheated on me becuase he was after excitement and some adventure. It was all fun and games until I cuaght him out and it wasnt until the he woke up to the extend of what he was doing and realised what he lossed as a result and dearly paid for it, it was becuase he was cuaght!

I was heart broken and devasted, I trusted him more than anything in the whole world, its a horrible feeling and it makes you check back and think "who can you trust"
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PostPosted: 08/05/07 - 06:50    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

love hurts and cheating is but one hurdle you over come... not that i ever cheated, personally i'm content with teh one i choose casue they choose me aswell... is that why i'm single...?
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