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HELP ME!!
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 Posted: 02/17/07 - 21:08 Post subject: Will Masterbation Ruin SEX FOR ME??????????????????????????? |
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| i am 16 and i have started masterbation at around 14 or whatever...when i first did it i had the normal..everyday mabey 2wice a day and so on but no more than 3 times..( i guess u could say my "record" is 6 in one day lol)...i did this normaly for about everyday for a year and half took breaks for mabey weekends or something...i am 16 now and i do it occasionally ....not becuase i am not horny...TRUST ME....but becuase i dont like it and i am a virgin and my main fear is that all my previous masterbation will somehow dull my sex experience... i still get hard..i still cum alot...but i hear all these storys of people not having fun during sex!!! this blows my mind..can someone clear this up for me? |
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helpisontheway
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| Posted: 02/18/07 - 14:07 Post subject: |
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| No. masturbation feels completely different to sex, there is no comparison between the two. |
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kazamo
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| Posted: 05/24/08 - 20:29 Post subject: |
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please read my post here about health on the masterbation matter, your instincts are right, read my message on this page
http://www.steadyhealth.com/viewtopic.php?p=581493#581493
help you get a little understanding the rest you do from there is up to you,
also the reason im saying your insticnts are right is because i feel that i have alot of confidence with women, or charm as you would say, compared to how i used to masterbate before |
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Monkey293
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| Posted: 05/25/08 - 07:33 Post subject: |
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i don't think you will have dull sex - my partner says masturbation is completely different to sex but he still enjoys sex more!
your first time will probably be rubbish - most peoples' are!
masturbation is a very alone kind of thing whereas sex involves give and take. most people prefer sex whilst they are in a relationship as it promotes feelings of intimacy and closeness!
most men feel that they have been missing out when they have sex! so don't worry! |
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Kirk C
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| Posted: 05/28/08 - 16:52 Post subject: |
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I disagree. I think masturbation and sex are very similar as far as a man's response.
But the things that are different are the feelings of closeness that are generated for your partner... the sense that you are coordinating something intimate and imporant with them.
The sensations of climax are very similar, except that your feedback loop is almost immediate under masturbation, and the coordination with coitus requires that you monitor yourself and your partner's response and make comprimises.
So, it is different, and the same.
Can you ruin yourself for sex by masturbation? Hardly. You might spoil yourself as it is much easier to climax from masturbation, but you won't need to learn so much about your personal response if you already have learned from masturbation.
Some people claim that they can slow their response from masturbating earlier in the day, but I've never tried that. |
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