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 Posted: 07/15/07 - 23:39 Post subject: |
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a week ago(july 8th) my boyfriend and i had sex.. we used a condom and when we were done we cleaned ourselfs up and layed naked together
well i got on top of him and was kissing him but i
i wasnt sitting on him but i did brush his penis very lightly.. i quickly got off thinking "holy crap, i shouldnt do that"
2 days later my period started.. and its been normal... but ive been going to the restroom alot recently...i usually hold it really well...but now it kinda kingles when i pee too( i know its not STDs b/c we were both virgins)
besides being afraid i could be pregnant, i felt this same why when i had a hernia.. and i dont want either...
plz tell me if i could be pregnant!!!! b4 its too late
i dont want to have a kid for my last year in highschool..(after highschool would be ok...) |
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bridget_1618
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| Posted: 07/31/07 - 08:46 Post subject: |
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| OK THEN IF YOU SAY THAT IF YOU MISSED YOUR PERIOD IT COULD ALSO BE STRESSED. BUT WHAT IF IT HAS BEEN A COUPLE OF MONTHS. CAN STRESS STOP YOU FROM HAVING YOUR PERIOD MORE THAN ONE MONTH? |
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Hizgrace4all
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| Posted: 08/09/07 - 18:37 Post subject: |
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Hi All,
I'm going to put this out first.....I am in NO way trying to sound disrespectful, place ANY agenda upon anyone, or sound nasty.
Here is the point. I have been reading several posts, AND many of them are presented in good ways and gaining information is VERY NECESSESARY. I would like to state something though. Now hear me out, this is speaking from past experience in many different areas, some which I am not proud of.
I dont understand why these young ladies and gentleman are even having sex, with the misunderstanding that is presented in these questions. It is good to have these questions, CERTAINLY, but shouldnt these questions be presented BEFORE going into these "gray" areas...AND with someone who is trustworthy.....I KNOW...POSSIBLY FAR STRETCHING....with a parent? I know I remember how petrified I was to ask ANY questions to my mother (MANY years ago). But come to find out much later in life, what I thought she would do was VERY different.
I guess I am not understanding about people having sex, worrying about pregnancy, STD'S, broken bonds, disrespect, chances of rape, etc.
Now dont be quick to jump on me here. Remember this is a public forum. But think about it. Your minds would be able to be concentrating on the things that you SHOULD be doing and not worrying about these issues. I think that abstinence is the BEST way for all these worries not exist, and you preserve something that is YOURS AND PRECIOUS.
I dont come to this forum not having gone through some SERIOUS things, but in the hopes of educating people on these issues.
I was reading a post, actually several where people would get "jumped" upon for their opinions and the person(s) stated their educations to show others how educated they are. That is wonderful.....CONGRATS !!!
I dont say that CONGRATS sarcastically. However, we must all respect each others right to opinions without name calling and blasting. ALL of us, wether we have 10,000 masters degrees should consider one another instead of ourselves, in my opinion. I have been to different countries and many different states (just to make a point...) and people wether they are "college successfuls with may degrees or not".... I would rather recieve counsel from someone with little book knowledge and GREAT heart, than someone with MASSIVE book knowledge and no heart. I dont in any way mean that offensively.
I see all these posts on the forum, with these girls asking questions after questions about sex. The questions are valid. Why arent these girls hearts being addressed?
In my opinion, I would rather NEVER have to worry about STD'S, pregnancy, broken bonds/heart, and have a whole self, than try to "rebuild" after a major catastrophe....such as AIDS. Yes I know SEVERAL people whom had sex 1 TIME and contracted HIV/AIDS. They have told me they wished SOMEONE had the guts and strength to tell them the truth. Now its too late in some instances.
I NEVER tell these truths to instill ANY fear into anyone. I tell these truths because my heart is for helping these younger/older ladies. As I have heard said MANY times, "sometimes the truth hurts.".
I am hoping not to get "blasted" by "hate" posts, but to have us ALL post the truths about the SPECIALITY/PRECIOUSNESS/SANCTITY/UNIQUENESS of our bodies.
Just a few words,
Hizgrace |
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| Posted: 08/27/07 - 21:53 Post subject: |
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| Thank you very much for the risk analysis. |
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| Posted: 08/30/07 - 19:55 Post subject: about her getting pregant |
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| ii was wondering how did she get pregant if the semen was outside her vigina. Sperm dies in the air, thats why it must be in the vigina for it to survive and fertilize the egg |
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| Posted: 10/12/07 - 20:57 Post subject: symptoms |
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my boyfriend and i had protected intercourse on the 6th of this month. unfortunately the condom broke after he ejaculated inside me.
afterwards, i peed (and squeezed my stomach because i heard that might help...just a rumor) and squirted water inside to maybe clean myself out a little.
about 3 days after, i began to get cramps, my breast began to hurt, and later on, i began to have white discharge.
this is normal for my period, but these sypmtoms are a bit early.
my period occurs anytime between the middle of the month to the end.
also, today i saw a little bit of blood in my discharge (also normal for my period)
is there still a possibility that i may be pregnant with these symptoms? |
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| Posted: 06/04/08 - 19:41 Post subject: |
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| Hizgrace4all wrote: | Hi All,
I'm going to put this out first.....I am in NO way trying to sound disrespectful, place ANY agenda upon anyone, or sound nasty.
Here is the point. I have been reading several posts, AND many of them are presented in good ways and gaining information is VERY NECESSESARY. I would like to state something though. Now hear me out, this is speaking from past experience in many different areas, some which I am not proud of.
I dont understand why these young ladies and gentleman are even having sex, with the misunderstanding that is presented in these questions. It is good to have these questions, CERTAINLY, but shouldnt these questions be presented BEFORE going into these "gray" areas...AND with someone who is trustworthy.....I KNOW...POSSIBLY FAR STRETCHING....with a parent? I know I remember how petrified I was to ask ANY questions to my mother (MANY years ago). But come to find out much later in life, what I thought she would do was VERY different.
Just a few words,
Hizgrace |
I think there's nothing wrong with the way you think! ^-^ I'm quite glad you feel the same way I feel, too..
I mean, I did have that one incident with my boyfriend that I posted a question about that worried me.. but, I'm so not having sex, or anything along those lines, again! I'd rather be in college right now than have sex... I'd talk to my mom about it, but, see, she's over protective and wouldn't let me be alone for even a second with my boyfriend again if she found out I did that once.. (even though I'm 18 and out of high school now!)
But, yes.. allot of these kids seem to be doing it without thinking when in all reality they should really be doing what kids should be doing: going to school, hanging out, having fun!
So, I respect your opinion! |
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| Posted: 06/04/08 - 19:49 Post subject: Yes it can! Believe it or not! |
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| bridget_1618 wrote: | | OK THEN IF YOU SAY THAT IF YOU MISSED YOUR PERIOD IT COULD ALSO BE STRESSED. BUT WHAT IF IT HAS BEEN A COUPLE OF MONTHS. CAN STRESS STOP YOU FROM HAVING YOUR PERIOD MORE THAN ONE MONTH? |
My sister, for example, could not sleep no matter what she did.. she took medicines and all sorts of pills for induced sleep and wouldn't get to sleep on some nights until 5 am! Well, because she didn't sleep much, she didn't get a lot of energy and was always tired.. and, well, kept telling my mom she was worried because she hadn't had her period for 2 or 3 months.. my mom thought something was wrong and took her to the doctor.. they did tests and found nothing wrong.. According to her doctor it was her lack of sleep..
Well, they gave her Melatonin (a chemical in your brain that is natural and helps put you to sleep) and the next month, after finally getting sleep a lot, she got her period!
Many factors such as: Sleep Deprivation, Illnesses(Like cancer, diabetes, etc), some STD's if they get bad enough and ruin your reproductive system, and drug abuse are all considered stresses to your body and can sometimes affect your period.
But, if you've had sex or something along those lines which is a risk of pregnancy, and you stress over it, your stress could be causing it to be late.. or you could be pregnant..
I'm no doctor.. but, from many medical shows I've seen, my many health education classes in school, and stories I;ve heard from adult women in my life and also on tv/online/magazines have told many things like this.. |
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