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 Posted: 04/25/08 - 14:17 Post subject: |
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| My Aunt spent 4 years trying to adopt a child because she couldnt have any of her own. She had a difficult time because many people who live in America consider abortion. A 17 year old girl contacted her because she was pregnant and didn't want to have an abortion, now my aunt has a beautiful baby girl. You really should take people like my aunt into consideration. SOO many people want to adopt, I myself will be adopting a child.. So please take that into consideration. |
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| Posted: 05/30/08 - 01:27 Post subject: |
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I have a wonderful brother who was adopted. My parents could not conceive after they had me and eventually enlisted the help of an adoption agency. That was nearly 20 years ago. My brother is one of my best friends. He is wonderful and I hope that those who feel so inspired will adopt out. However, I do not purport to know what it feels like to have an unwanted pregnancy. I am 25 now with a post-graduate degree almost under my belt and I may still consider abortion if I get pregnant accidently. So, is there a right or a wrong way to handle an unwanted pregnancy? I don't think so. Every person must weigh that very trying decision for herself. It is not a position that I envy and I fell that we all ought to support woman in that situation no matter what desicion she makes. I know my opinion doesn't matter much, but if it helps anyone, I don't believe God will judge you if you truly feel that you can't do it. Everyone has troubles and everyone does the best they can. If you are pregnant and you are conflicted about what to do, just know that you will get through it no matter what and everything will be okay no matter what you choose. You may regret any of the choices you make, but you just have to make the best one for you and try to move on. I wish I could help more, but that is as good as I can do.
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| Posted: 06/12/08 - 19:50 Post subject: abortion |
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why not put the "accident" child up for adoption instead? I'm sure the little innocent baby would love the chance to live! Plus, I know there are many couples out there who want babies so badly, but aren't able to have them. I know they would love to hold that baby that someone else doesn't want!!!
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| Posted: 06/18/08 - 01:23 Post subject: Help! |
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| I am 19 and married but not ready for a kid. I have been taking birth control, but think i might be pregnant. I stopped taking it cuz i ran out. I was off of it for about a week. When i started my new cycle I had sex that day. Was it to soon? Could I be prgnant? It has been a week since then and i have been feeling sick. Really bad stomach pains, light headed sometimes, and nausea. Is it just the birth control? Should I stop tking it? Cuz if I am pregnant I dont want to hurt the baby. |
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| Posted: 07/05/08 - 13:26 Post subject: Re: Worried about pregnancy, on birth control, need some hel |
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every one has to make their own decisions thats something each one of us has to do on our own. however we can help each other make the right one.
i got pregnant when i was 18 yrs old and still in school, i had my baby and i love her more than the world its self. when i was almost 20 yrs old i found once again i was pregnant but this time i decided not to keep it. im saying this because you want to make sure that the option you chose is the right one i wont lie i hate my self more each time i see my child and think omg there is supposed to be two of them. it hurts and ill never do it again.
so before you jump the gun and run to the abortion place make sure you can handle what comes after. |
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| Posted: 07/14/08 - 18:39 Post subject: Re: If pregnancy is the case, abortion doesn't have to be th |
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| Guest wrote: | | Mary, I have been in that same situation before sans-birth control pills. I understand that you are probably freaking out and making sure that, if you are pregnant, making sure no one finds out is your first thought. My whole life I have been a pro-life supporter and I have definately come under attack of feminists saying "well if you were in that situation, you don't know what you would do". Well, for about 2 weeks I DID think I was in that situation, and all I can tell you is that not once did I consider abortion as an option. Yeah, I screwed up, my mother found out and she lost trust in me that I had to gain back, but I thought that killing the child (of a guy I didn't love) was a bad choice because I was the one who screwed up, not the child. God doesn't make mistakes darlin', he just embelishes on the ones we make, and while I don't know whether or not you actually ARE pregnant, maybe you shouldn't just jump to 'abortion' the way most of the people giving you advice seem to be doing. Go to any church in your area and they can help you find a family who wants to adopt that child...and believe me, there are more than you would think. So yes, I hope you aren't pregnant, but in case you are, there are other options besides making choices for a person who can't tell you no. |
okay this is not a pro life/pro choice debate it is the fact that shes on birth control and thinks she may be pregnate. damn, i think you should wait a week or so and then take a regular at home pee test. and see what happens then IT IS YOUR CHOICE OF WHAT TO DO |
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