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confuzzedpanda · Newbie Joined: 12 Jul 2006 Posts: 1

I think something is wrong with me, and I have no idea what it could be or how to fix it.

Yesterday afternon, my boyfriend and I were about to have sex for the first time (he is a virgin too). Well there was all this cool foreplay and stuff and we both wanted each other very badly, so of course we were both very... er, ready, and I was very relaxed. He had a lubed condom and I was quite lubed myself (and he is quite well-endowed but not impossibly huge), but when he went to put it in he MAY HAVE got it about halfway when I screamed for him to stop... It felt like I was being ripped apart or something very close to it... it felt like if he went all the way in it would have required medical attention on my end.

I asked a friend about when she lost it, and she sent me here for an answer. I mean I know it is supposed to hur the first time, but I think that the degree of my pain is abnormal. It still sort of hurts as well. Does anybody know what I could possibly do to help this or to make it easier even if I will still have a worse pain than normal?

dazednconfused · Newbie Joined: 16 Feb 2006 Posts: 30

just tell him to go in slowly, a little bit at a time, not to force anything right in. just make sure he takes his time and goes slow so theres not too much pain for you.

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

YUP it happened to me too! I am 24 now, but at age 17 when I lost my virginity..MAN it hurt so bad I said STOP AHHH...LOL

Then 2 weeks later we tried again, and did it..It is painful, I am not going to lie, but as soon as your hymen fully breaks away the pain goes away.

ALSO, you may bleed a but, so do not be surprised.

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