KrystalAries
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 Posted: 11/06/07 - 20:17 Post subject: "Pulling out" seems to be working ... or is it ?? |
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skip to the bold if you don't feel like reading my whole background story ...
My boyfriend and I have sex kinda a lot ..... not even kinda ...
we'll have sex, mess around, have sex again, mess around some more ... i can get him to cum 4 or 5 times before he can't get it up anymore ... and he might be shooting blanks by the third or fourth time...
we never use protection anymore because he says it feels good without and i want him to feel good ... so a few seconds before he cums, he pulls out and jerks off the rest of the way ...
we're both faithful to each other (trust me, i know he's faithful) and i although there is that risk of him having an STI from a previous partner (which only occurred to me like 2 days ago)... he's never showed any signs of an STI (no one can be sure about HIV tho :/ ) so i've decided that an 8 month monogomaous relationship (only the last 2 1/2 months having sex) would yield only the risk of getting pregnant...
however, even though we'll have sex a few times in a row, we'd stop to eat and then go back at it for another few times, so you could say we have sex on average 4 times each day that we spend having sex, which happens about once or twice a week ...
i know that he precums ... a little 'phenomenon' we only noticed in the past few weeks since we started having sex more often than when we started in late august ...
the only time we don't have sex is when i'm menstruating ... (and for some reason my periods are coming sooner, but that might be because i've gained and maintained my weight...i used to be irregular skipping up to 4 months and now ive gotten it after 6 weeks then after 5 weeks and the last after 4 weeks)...
could us having sex so often have anything to do with me having sooner periods and him having more precum?
ive heard that girls who are best friends and spend a lot of time around each other can menstruate around the same time because their bodies begin to coordinate with each other ... im assuming their hormones ...
could me and my boyfriend's hormones coordinate ??
and the important question i have:
i know that there is a chance of getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate, but i haven't gotten pregnant after all these times of repeated sexual activity in a row and in a day...
should i still be worried that his precum could get me pregnant if we've used the pull-out method so many times and nothing has happened yet ?? |
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