am i just being worried?????

Ketsurui907 · Guest

Am I just worried?

Me and my boyfriend had sex twice, it was both of our first. He was using protection, spermicidal lubricant trojan condoms. There were no holes, or breakages. He didn't ejaculate inside me either. He also fingered me a few times the past month, but there was no precum on either of our hands, we're sure of that. My period is due tomorrow, but I haven't had a cramp or anything yet, and I usually do two days before my period.

am i being irrational? I don't see how it's even remotely possible that I could be pregnant. We were so safe, and there was no ejaculation.

someone please talk some sense to my mind, i keep worrying.

helpisontheway · Veteran Joined: 01 Jul 2006 Posts: 760 Location: England

dont worry, You were protected from sex, your genitals havent come into any contact with his sexual fluid, the chances of you getting pregnant from that are basically zero.

The loss of your virginity can throw the menstrual cycle off for some women, it happened to me, and I was completely fine of course! Stress can delay menses too, doesnt mean you are pregnant though! its completely natural.

My advice to you would to look into Birth Control of some kind, You can get the birth control pill for free in some places, or at a very low cost at least, and parents dont have to know about it either if that worries you.

it takes the weight off your mind completely, safe in the knowledge you are double protected from pregnancy with the Birth control pill and condoms. allowing you to be relaxed and comfortable when you want to be intimate with your Boyfreind.

If you are a natural worrier it is one of the best steps to take, stress is horrible to live with!!! I am a worrier too, always jumping to the worst case scenario, so it was one of the best desicions I ever made, personally.

am i just being worried?????

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