boyfriend cannot reach orgasm

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my boyfriend has delayed ejaculation. he has never had an orgasm during sex with me. He always masturbates to reach orgasim and it takes a long time. I wonder if he is attracted to me. He says he is. I try not to bring it up any more and tell him sex is really great to make him feel that it is not a problem. He said he has always been this way but he has a child. I'm thinking of ending the relationship because he doesnt have stong enough feelings for me. Are there other reasons for this happening.

Natalia · Supporter Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 363

I don't think you should dump him for this. I don't think it has anything to do with you. He probably wouldn't be with you if he didn't like you, so stop worrying about that.

Have you ever masturbated him to the end?

Smellz · Newbie Joined: 09 Feb 2007 Posts: 2

If this guy has a kid, maybe he is subconciously afraid to cum near your vaginal area for fear of getting you pregnant.

I believe this prob is more common than we think and its purely mental. for watever reason the guy is afraid, self-concious, or masterbates or watches porn sop much that actually having sex with a woman is strange and new to them.

Weired but true.

Talk. talk and take your time when having sex. make it out like cumming isnt the b all and end all to your pleasure. Just enjoy the journey and touch and rub and feel around as much as possible. it will happen...

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it's a medical condition. it has nothing to do with you.

it's called retarded ejaculation. look it up.

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