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sad
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 Posted: 06/23/06 - 15:17 Post subject: boyfriend getting high |
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| Hi, I have a question, I don't know what to do, my boyfriend likes to get high, but whenever I ask him about it, he getss all pissed off and yells at me and hangs up, I don't like him getting high but he told me he's not gonna stop, I even threatined to end our relationship ad he didn't even care, so what shou;ld I do? thanks |
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peachybum
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| Posted: 06/25/06 - 02:47 Post subject: getting high |
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An addiction is a terrible thing to have, it isolates the addict and they will make all sorts of excuses for it, when he is yelling at you, he probably knows that you are right, and yelling is his only defence, because he doesnt want to admit that he has a problem
You have to think for yourself now, this is not your problem, you cant fix it for him, do you really want to be in a relationship with someone like this.
There are many people out there in the world, that can make you happy. You dont need to take on his problems, unless he asks for your help.
I suggest leave him alone, and ge out with your friends and have fun |
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simone
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| Posted: 06/25/06 - 05:14 Post subject: |
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From my point of you, there are many things to consider here. How long have you been together? How long he has been doing it? What does he take-marijuana or something else? How old you both are? Is your relationship going somewhere? What do you want from him and your relationship? What are you getting from this relationship? What are you not getting from the relationship? Is this what you are getting worth more than what you are not getting, etc…..?
Once you put all the facts on the paper and consider things through, you may have a clearer picture and it may be easier to decide what to do next.
Every boy has a marijuana period. Some take it occasionally with friends, some take it regularly…..the question is how much it is interfering with his daily activities, if he’s neglecting you, if his character changes and things like that.
After some time, they just stop. You may not be ok with smoking weed but sorry to say it is your problem (and I can understand in a way) and you have to decide what you are going to do about it. Leave him or not. Going around nagging won’t do you any good, believe me and it certainly won’t make him stop.
If he’s getting high on some other drug, then ……it is another, and more serious story. |
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