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 Posted: 10/30/06 - 14:04 Post subject: burning during sex |
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| I have burning during sex. It seems to hurt more when my boyfriend is entering then when he is actually inside me. It is making me not want to have sex, what could be wrong with me? |
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| Posted: 11/01/06 - 22:15 Post subject: Me Too! |
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| I am having the same exact problems! No body can tell me anything and it is becoming very frustrating for me and my husband. I wish someone new what it is. my doctors keep saying maybe I need to switch detergents or that its just a yeast infection, but I think it's something else. I am very confused as to why they arent more willing to help me. What perplexes me even more is that we are both each others first partners, so there is no way there could be any std's or anything. |
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| Posted: 11/09/06 - 19:53 Post subject: burning during sex |
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| you may have an allergy to latex if you are using latex condoms, otherwise you may want to use a water based lubricant. |
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| Posted: 03/15/07 - 19:49 Post subject: |
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| Sorry to hear this, but I am glad that I am not the only one with this problem..Talking to a MD though I thought I was the only person with these symptoms!! If you find what your problem is, medication, please post!![/b] |
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| Posted: 03/16/07 - 22:13 Post subject: You're not alone. |
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| I can feel your pain--literally. My husband and I are also one anothers' "firsts," and I have also been checked and re-checked by a gynecologist. We have had sex both with and without condoms, which rules out allergic reactions to either ejaculatory fluids or synthetic lubrications. We have also added extra minutes to our foreplay, and had sex only when I was trouroughly lubricated. My gyn. even suggested my own lubrication may not be sufficient, which led us to use KY lubrication--and lots of--but the pain of the outer opening upon entering was still there. I sometimes feel as if I am being de-virginized every time. My only guess is that our sizes are incompatible. I weigh 98 pounds, and my husband's penis is extremely wide. I have no idea what else it could be and, like you, I seem to be put on the back burner by my doctors when they can't find anything physically wrong. It is frustrating and upsetting and I have shed many tears over the fact that this amazing gift that I waited for for so long involves physical pain. I just try to not think about it and enjoy the fact that I am sharing love with the person I care about more than anyone else. You're not alone. I hope we all figure out our problem... |
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| Posted: 04/04/07 - 02:02 Post subject: |
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Yes i have this problem...i lost my virginity 6 months ago to my fiance and it still hurts when entering..i asked my doctor and she checked (he is my first but i'm not his) but i had no infections diseses..nothing..and we use tons of ky plus my own..but nothing helps...i'm on BC but i make plenty of my own lube..the KY is just for extra help..and we use nonlatex condoms since i am allergic..just like the last girl..i am 105 lbs and he is fairly wide too...(i'm 5'4 he's 6'2..so he is bigger all around in general)
what are our docs not telling us....seriously... |
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| Posted: 04/04/07 - 14:56 Post subject: Re: burning during sex |
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| Guest wrote: | | you may have an allergy to latex if you are using latex condoms, otherwise you may want to use a water based lubricant. |
I agree |
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| Posted: 12/14/07 - 21:25 Post subject: |
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| I know for sure that I am not allergic to latex...I get VERY wet...and my husband is my only partner as well. I didn't always have this pain or burning sensation it has only been the past two year out of seven that we have been together. I hate that no one understands what I'm talking about....until I read this board. I am in so much pain lately that I cry and we wind up finishing with a hand job. I feel so inadequate!!!!! I hope a dr. can diagnosis this soon!!! |
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| Posted: 03/05/08 - 03:44 Post subject: burning during intercourse |
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| Like you all I have the same issue. My husband and I have been together for 4 years and this has always been the case. Believe me when I say that we have tried everything to fix this, and nothing seems to help. What sucks even more is the fact that we are trying to have kids. I want to have sex with him it just that there are times where it hurts to much to continue. Which I know doesn't help the situation for him. He has told me many times that he feels inadequate and I keep telling him that it is me and not him. This is really taking a toll on our marriage. I can't wait for someone to figure out what is behind it all. |
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| Posted: 03/08/08 - 02:42 Post subject: |
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My fiance has a very large penis and it hurts when he enters but I
have learned to like a little pain. It took some time but I finally got used to him. It doesnt hurt during the sex anymore unless he gets really excited and starts going too deep. (then I just say"easy honey" and he knows to calm down a little. we talk about it sometimes because
he knows he is blessed down there. he is long and wide). But I dont think there is a solution other than to have more sex to try getting used to it.
About the burning, my fiance is the only guy that has ever came inside of me and it burns sometimes. I dont know what that is about but we dont have any STDs or infections either. Until someone finds us some answers I think we are going to have to just suck it up ladies, especially if we have chosen these well endowed men as our life partners. if their penises were too small then we would still be complaining. its better to have too much than not enough. |
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