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 Posted: 05/18/08 - 18:28 Post subject: kikeking |
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| im 16 years old and i havent been a virgin for years. However, ive been with this girl for the past 5 months now. We have only really tried having sex twice and both times i couldnt get it up. The first time i think it was just because we waited to long or something to get started but the second time i dont even really have an excuse. She is a year and a half older than me and an extremely horny teen. we love eachother so much, we are so great together...anyway I dont no why im having this problem cause its never happend before and ironically, she is the HOTTEST girl that ive ever dated. I think it might be just cause i jack off way to much but im not sure. like i said she is a really horny girl and im afraid that if we dont do it soon, she might dump me. she hasnt given me any reason to believe she would, but i have this feeling. any tips would be extremely helpful. i just dont want to lose her. shes amazing. thank you |
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| Posted: 06/18/08 - 03:42 Post subject: |
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you guys...
u guys are all very young and have nothing wrong with u physically..
no weed, stress, sports or any of that.. u have a mental block or temporary psychological ed
im in my twenties and have just experienced this with my current girlfriend( ive had great sex since i was 15!) but, one night i was too drunk and couldnt get it up for our first time( much like ur guys nervousness to ur first time, this created a worry in my head that kept me from getting hard for weeks & weeks!
just explain to ur chicks that uve psyched ur self out from the embarrassment of "not being able to get it up/please them" and that ur fine physically!!!
also, if u can get an over the counter sexual stimulant, those can help to give ur system a little boost, and a mental cruch
other than that, concentrate on foreplay(u can get them off with hands/tongues, etc.!, and getting more comfortable with them on other levels. cheer up, cuz u will get hard! ive so been there, and it sux!!!
for more info, google sexual performance anxiety
oh, and dont be so thrilled with ur good erection that u forget to be safe. use ur condoms! |
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| Posted: 07/03/08 - 00:58 Post subject: erections |
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| There is a way to beat it but works only if quite awake, there called, if you like, penis arobics. and its just as it sounds you twist the penis side to side, forwrd backward, for a while. this shoulg get blood circulatig. when u feel it might be coming on push 2 of your front fingers under the (ahem) *ball sack* then keep applying pressure, this makes it sorta stiff, and the ya work out the kinks inbetween. hope i helped. |
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| Posted: 07/12/08 - 13:23 Post subject: |
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| dont worry its normal i had the same thing my first time except the second time i did fine but around like the 5th time i got soft again. it happens just talk dirty to eachother all day and wen u see eachother at night ull be pumped to see them and ull be good to go |
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| Posted: 07/14/08 - 17:50 Post subject: |
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Here's the best advice that I've heard so far:
" ok trust me guys... this is perfectly normal. the problem is your too nervous or just stressed out. usually if you just think sexual or any other thing to get yourself hard and try and forget about anything that may go wrong or that stresses you out"
All these posts about lemon juice, ben gay, heat rub, or boiling water are just mean-spirited pricks trying to get you to hurt yourself. Don't listen to them.
The primary reason for loss of erection is worry. The second most common reason is stress or pressure. If you relax and you know what you're doing, things should follow naturually. |
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| Posted: 07/17/08 - 23:51 Post subject: |
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| i was so pissed i wanted to kill myself my first time trying to have sex and i couldnt the girl was hot as f*** and alot older but nop i wanted to so bad and still nothing sooo embarrasing i was erect before it making out and touching but when we got to bed nothing |
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| Posted: 07/18/08 - 03:08 Post subject: uhm solution maybe? |
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Well, if it doesn't erect by itself, why dont you just ask her to Bj you..
That outa do it? |
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| Posted: 07/18/08 - 03:11 Post subject: wait wait wait |
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But then again, I havn't had sex and Im only 15.
Actually about 2months ago there was this party, and I was making out with some girl and she started grabbing my penis.. but I need to talk to the doctor about getting some ointment to soften up my forskin so its easier to pull back, so I couldn't do anything with her.
Trying to relate.. when she started grabing it I got a boner, but I didnt have one before just by looking at her.
My point is you might need her to touch you before you get an erection. |
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