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PostPosted: 03/12/07 - 17:54    Post subject: cannot get a boner/erection before sex Vote now! Reply with quote

im 15 and last week me and my girlfriend attempted to have sex. it was a first time for both of us. however i could not get a boner. i figured i was just nervous because it was my first time. but then the next day we tried again and the exact same thing happened. i dont think im nervous about having sex and i cant seem to figure out what the problem is. i can get an erection when i try to masturbait and yesterday i even woke up with morning wood. i would really like some advice on how to help myself get an erection before attempting to have sex.
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PostPosted: 01/23/08 - 11:12    Post subject: cannot get a boner/erection before sex Vote now! Reply with quote

i have the same problem, could you please tell me what i t could be and also, what (if) if i have a condition, what it would be. thanks.
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PostPosted: 04/14/08 - 07:51    Post subject: cannot get a boner/erection before sex Vote now! Reply with quote

i also have the same problem i am 15 and my girlfriend decided we would have sex for the first time and i couldent get an eretion, so if there is anybody out there with some good answers could you tell them please without me putting lemon juice over my penis.

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PostPosted: 04/19/08 - 13:48    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

hey i had the same problem and i am 17teen and i was really pissed that i couldnt get it up. i think the problem is that i masterbated the night before twice, or that my body was too tired from sports,and i was told if you dont eat enough then that can also affect it. i also heared that coffee is also bad before sex too.

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PostPosted: 04/21/08 - 23:12    Post subject: woww same here... Vote now! Reply with quote

i was attemptin sex for the first time and i couldnt get a boner even with her naked i wasn't getting a full boner more like mild what is worng i did everything but couldnt get a boner which ruined everything what do i do?????
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PostPosted: 05/01/08 - 22:02    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

i tried to to it was so embarrassing that i couldnt get it up! and i have a pretty big dick she would have liked it wtf do i do?!?!?!
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PostPosted: 05/03/08 - 00:00    Post subject: Re: cannot get a boner/erection before sex Vote now! Reply with quote

theman1212 wrote:
im 15 and last week me and my girlfriend attempted to have sex. it was a first time for both of us. however i could not get a boner. i figured i was just nervous because it was my first time. but then the next day we tried again and the exact same thing happened. i dont think im nervous about having sex and i cant seem to figure out what the problem is. i can get an erection when i try to masturbait and yesterday i even woke up with morning wood. i would really like some advice on how to help myself get an erection before attempting to have sex.
ok trust me guyz this is perfectly normal the problem is your to nervous or just stressed out. usually if you just thing sexual or any other thing to get yourself hard and try and forget about anything that may go wrong or that stresses you out
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PostPosted: 05/08/08 - 07:15    Post subject: same problem.... Vote now! Reply with quote

im 17 nearly 18 everytime ive attempted to have sex with girls its never got erected or its half erected and goes down within 1/2min....
im getting seriously annoyed/depressed about this problem...can someone please help me!!
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PostPosted: 05/14/08 - 14:45    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

yea im 17 and again, same problem
it was after going to school and working 4-10..could that have something to do with it?
also, does pot decrease your ability (i wasnt high, but thc is in my system from previous uses)
we had a bit of foreplay, i started getting hard (not fully) but then got soft again when attempting sex Sad
is something wrong? any methods to help this from happening?
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PostPosted: 05/18/08 - 18:18    Post subject: need some help Vote now! Reply with quote

im 16 years old and i havent been a virgin for years. However, ive been with this girl for the past 5 months now. We have only really tried having sex twice and both times i couldnt get it up. The first time i think it was just because we waited to long or something to get started but the second time i dont even really have an excuse. She is a year and a half older than me and an extremely horny teen. I dont no why im having this problem cause its never happend before and ironically, she is the HOTTEST girl that ive ever dated. I think it might be just cause i jack off way to much but im not sure. like i said she is a really horny girl and im afraid that if we dont do it soon, she might dump me. she hasnt given me any reason to believe she would, but i have this feeling. any tips would be extremely helpful. thank you
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