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Nicholl
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 Posted: 03/11/07 - 23:29 Post subject: cant get my boyfriend off. |
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okay i cant get my boyfriend off. whats wrong with me. he says its not my fault. but i think it is.i ask him if it and he says im amazing at oral. (thats as far as weve gotten) he says it feels good and stuff but he never rreaches climax..
what could be wrong?
is it me?
the way i look/
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simonfren
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| Posted: 03/16/07 - 18:31 Post subject: |
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Us men may not admit it but ejaculating in front of someone for the first time (especially when you are young) is hard to. It’s a bit like stage fright but he’ll get over it.
Don’t put too much pressure on him to ejaculate, just enjoy the pleasure he gives you and you give him. |
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krimlin077
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| Posted: 04/10/07 - 20:27 Post subject: |
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being a guy, i also agree that it is difficult to get off at times. Unless he has trouble getting off himself, then I wouldnt worry yourself with it.
Unfortunatly, most guys are not up front with girls on how they are doing. While he is saying your doing great/amazing, that is most likly the truth. The girl who has done oral on me a few times is absolutely great, she may not make me cum all the time but still, but it feels great. Each guy is different on where his most sensitive spots are on his shaft, and it will take time to figure them out yourself. It is embarissing and makes me feel bad if I try and tell the girl where exactly to lick or apply more pressure to ( atleast in my case, I normally dont tell them what I like until the 5 or 6th time , or I might say " i really like that" which normally gives themteh hint to keep that motion or pressure up.) Watch for hints like comments like that, or louder than normal moans.
The reason for most guys ( and maybe yours included ) is that guy are far more sensitive / picky when it comes to hitting the hottest spots, and in most cases need the same exact motion/tighness/rythm to cum, and with oral that is very hard to to. Vagina and mouth feel very different as the only tighest a guy can feel is from your lips which are not wide or deep, where the vigina obviously has walls that extend farther back, hitting the guys spot for a longer time and mort often. Dont feel bad in anyways if you dont make him cum, feel great if you do, but if he is telling you that you are doing great, you most likly are. If you really want to make him cum, you might ask him instead, as a "polite" guy would hardly tell you what to do so you dont feel like your doing bad, you just might not be experienced in oral or he might have different likes from your last guy, not that it is a bad thing. |
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| Posted: 05/22/07 - 18:22 Post subject: |
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| my bf is able to cum to his porno's but no longer me. What is up??? |
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lrdicuss
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| Posted: 06/08/07 - 16:07 Post subject: personally... |
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My girlfriend is amazing at oral... like no doubt, but ya know what? I am not an easy guy to get off.. She could be down there for 45 mins and get nothing... It feels wonderful, I just TAKE a long damned time.. I mean sex is random.. I can last (w/o a condom) 1hr-5hrs(5 being the longest)... Sometimes it can suck when you're just aiming for a quickie... but hey, everyone is different, he's not lying when he says this stuff I'm sure...
-Ze Eric |
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hypochonrciacz0r
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| Posted: 06/13/07 - 10:59 Post subject: the blow job thing |
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| I had the same problem with my last gf, she tried and tried,but it would take like 20 minutes to actually get to climax, and most girls aren't prepared to go that long |
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