lty_patt
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Location: Little Rock, AR USA
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 Posted: 12/22/07 - 10:42 Post subject: |
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| I have friends who have cheated. They cheated because they aren't getting what they need from their loving husband. some women cheat for sexual pleasure and that's it, they then have their husbands whom they love for everything else. i know it sounds really stupid and shallow, but men do the same thing. it's not that women or men don't love their husbands and wives when they cheat, they are missing something. Have you ever rented the movie unfaithful? Rent it if you haven't. by cheating they don't have the wife expectations with the other person. there's no cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, fighting over money, fighting over sex ect. and with men there are no husband expectations. no pulling overtime to support the family, do picking up a galon of milk on the way home from work, no being quiet cause the kids are sleeping, ect. Its relaxing, and gives them a break. Sex can help a relationship even if it isn't with the spouse. i seen a thing on yahoo that the % of married couples are increasing due to the fact that one of the spouses are having a meaningless sex affair and the other doesn't know about it. they are in a more cheeful mood, playful, more excited to have sex with you. mainly it's Crazy skanky sex with someone they don't love, but pationate quiet cause the kids are sleeping in th next room sex with their spouse. |
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