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LiLBuNnIeHuNnIE.
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 Posted: 08/22/07 - 01:27 Post subject: concerned about my first time |
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My Boyfriend and I eventually wanna have sex
The only thing is I'm a virgin and he's not
He's had sex with ALOT of girls, but he's always used protection and he
gets checked for stds, But i'm still alittle afraid of the chances that he might have one, I feel so bad because i want to have sex with him and i know he wants to with me, but i put it off because i'm alittle worried for him and me.
I dont know what to do. i try to ignore it, he never pressures me into it.
he just loves sex, But i want him to be happy. im so confused i dont know what to do, and i dont wanna tell him i dont wanna have sex with him because of the risks or anything, I know he doesnt have an std. But just knowing how many girls he's had sex with, just worrys me that there is a chance.. i wish i could stop thinking about this. but i dont know how to stop it. i think im just over reacting. but ah i dont know. |
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Unknown31
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| Posted: 10/01/07 - 17:47 Post subject: |
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LiLBuNnIeHuNnIE.
I'll try to help you.
If he's slept with alot of girls as you have said then there is a chance that he has an STD, as you have correctly pointed out. Although he gets checked for them he shouldn't have to.
I'm sorry to say and you don't have to listen to me but if he's had sex with alot of girls......are you sure that you want to lose your virginity to someone who may just up and leave or go and cheat on you?
Please be sure about everything before you dive into it.
Make sure that he knows that you are 150% certain that you want to lose your virginity to him and that you love him, if you do.
I waited til I was happily in love before giving my virginity to my girlfriend, now fiancee.
Hope i've helped LiLBuNnIeHuNnIE.
Take care
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abbeytoks
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| Posted: 10/01/07 - 19:17 Post subject: u sure u are ready it |
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| ur virginity is the only pride u av in ur life as a woman,u av 2 make sure u are really ready 2 give him ur virginity,do u kno u can neva 4get the memory of who u actually loose ur virginity to,the fact that he's been wit many gurls is neva the issue,most guys av their past,but if he actuallychecked himself & he is clean,if u truly love him & u wanna give ur virginity to him just be on a safer side to protect urself,dont let him sleep wit u without protection.even if not becos of the disease think about PREGNANCY or are u ready 2 be a mother?pls make a very good choice. |
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