condom broke, used morning after pill, got period, am now over a month late on next period.. HELP

stuffgirl45 · Newbie Joined: 05 Jan 2007 Posts: 1

Alright. This is a lot of reading but please help me. I think I have posted this same scenario on a million messageboards on the web and I am getting very frustrated and very scared because I am finding no answers. This is a bit of a complicated story but I am in desperate need of help. I'm 16 with a bright future and basically everything at stake here. I need help.

Around November 17th I had sex. The condom broke and he pulled out right away, before ejaculating. Long before, in fact. But I got so scared that the pre-cum would get me pregnant that I went to Planned Parenthood that following Monday (November 20th) and got the Morning After Pill. 4 days later, I got my period, so of course I was relieved. The problem now, though, is that I got my period at the end of November and didn't see it again all of December. It is now January 4th and I still am not seeing it nor am I having any indication that it's coming. Needless to say, I am freaking out. I called Planned Parenthood earlier today and asked if the Morning After Pill messes with your cycles or anything, and the lady says that missing the next period after the one that the pill induces is not normal and she suggested I come in for a pregnancy test. Here's the other twist to my little heart-warming story: The guy I had sex with was not my boyfriend. I was somewhat bullied into doing it but I figured that if I did it with him once he would shut up and leave me alone about it. I love my boyfriend with all of my heart and the last thing I want to do is hurt him because he's had a really rough life. If it turns out I am pregnant, I am going to not only lose the love of my life, but my entire future and all the plans I have for myself will be demolished because I doubt my mom would let me get an abortion and I don't want to put her thru any hardships either.

My questions are:
-How likely is it that I could have gotten pregnant off of what little precum that could have slipped into my vagina when the condom broke, since he pulled out right away when it broke and before ejaculation?
-Can I still be pregnant after I took the pill AND got my period?
-Is it possible that the pill delayed my next period and the lady at Planned Parenthood was wrong and it's just all in my head?
-How am I going to manage getting an abortion without my mom or boyfriend finding out about it?

Please, for the love of all things good, help me.

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i would like to know the answer to this problem. me and my GF are in the same boat.

lowla · Newbie Joined: 31 Jan 2007 Posts: 1

My questions are:
-How likely is it that I could have gotten pregnant off of what little precum that could have slipped into my vagina when the condom broke, since he pulled out right away when it broke and before ejaculation?

Precum contains very little if ANY sperm, so it is UNLIKELY that you would get pregnant that way, however it is possible.

-Can I still be pregnant after I took the pill AND got my period?

Considering you got your period 7 days in total after you had sex, you would have to tell me when the actual due date of your period was? If your first period came right on time or earlier than expected....then you are most likely not pregnant. The morning after pill has a very small failure rate.

-Is it possible that the pill delayed my next period and the lady at Planned Parenthood was wrong and it's just all in my head? Shes right about it not being normal, BUT in my opinion its not a sign of pregnancy. It is probably the pill that messed up your hormones and if you did get your period abit early the month before thats probably wat stirred it up even more.

What i would be more worried about is checking for sexually transmitted diseases. something like that can cause this to happen, or an infection of some sort.

-How am I going to manage getting an abortion without my mom or boyfriend finding out about it?

You wont need to, im 99% certain you arent pregnant.

Olivia7 · Newbie Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Posts: 39

did your next period ever come?

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hey, really don't worry. It is very rare that women would get pregnant off a little bit of pre-cum that could have gotten into your vagina. Infact, you can look at sperm as a type of germ thats why women have natural fluids that fight sperm off. Plus, most condoms contain sperimicide that actaully kills sperm.. so even if the condom broke, the little bit of sperm should have been killed. Also, in response to your question about missing your period. I don't think the pill has anything to do with it. I've missed my period for 3 months after having sexual intercourse and wasn't pregnant when mine usually comes regular. Believe me, i am in the same situation right now. i know how you feel. But u have to think about the positives and how slim of a chance it is you are pregnant. AND... if u are pregnant and want an abortion, they have clinics where you can get that confidentially... you just need to come up with the money. AND !!!!! dont let ppl tell you if u are pregnant .. not to let u get an abortion. Im not for it or anything, but it is an option. you can do whatever you want. Just think of an abortion destroying little cells... it wouldnt even be the shape of a baby yet. But if u are ready and decide to have his baby don't let anyone stop you .
GOOD LUCK BABES!

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I am in the same boat. I would love to know if your pregnant or not. Please let me know Smile

Sen24 · Newbie Joined: 06 May 2007 Posts: 1

I missed two periods after I took the morning after pill. Went to the doctor and they said can knock hormones out, not to worry. I had taken 12 pregnancy tests all negative. Doctor said that I definitely wasn't pregnant and that they don't start to investigate any other problem, like early menopause, for at least six months. It was two and a half months before I finally got my period, but I'm fine now. Go to the doctor, just to be sure, but this is not that abnormal after the morning after pill.

condom broke, used morning after pill, got period, am now over a month late on next period.. HELP

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