depressed about being ugly

esparza · Silver Member Joined: 27 Nov 2000 Posts: 247

Hello. I have one delicate problem and I'm embarrassed to even talk about it. I'm not so satisfied with my look.
I have strong beliefs that I'm not so pretty. My mother tells me that I am imagining this and that I should think about it.
I'm 20 years old now and I'm not satisfied with some things on my face and body.
First I would like to mention my nose that is too big. I was even thinking on some plastic operation. And also I'm to skinny.
All this is making me very depressed. Please help! Should I take some antidepressants?

bulson · Newbie Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Posts: 16

Well, I can give some advices on this subject. First I would like to say that I'm not suggesting you to use any antidepressant because these happy pills only relieve your sad mood but not solve any of your primary problems.
I don’t think you have anything to be depressed.
I think it is enough of sitting and crying on your mother’s shoulder.
You should take some steps to help your self. You said that you are too skinny and don’t have enough muscles.
Well, they don’t come by them self. Start visiting some local gym and in about six months of hard working you will see effects. You will develop much positive opinion about your self. If you are unhappy with the look of your nose, you could schedule your self an operation. Talk with your mother about this.
These operations are not so expensive and in one day you will have a new nose.

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Regarding your nose: if it truly is too big for your liking then get it fixed now rather than later. Trust me I know - it will not get better with time.
signed,
someone who wishes I had mine fixed 15 years ago.

AlycenChesley · Newbie Joined: 26 Aug 2008 Posts: 3

There is nothing wrong with being too skinny . The majority of people wish they were too skinny

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