does too much anal sex hurt health?

OK a friend told me of you give someone anal sex too often or too much they will be in diapers by age 45! Is this true? If oo pleas tell me the limits of what is safe. PS: im a 14 year old guy

Well, its not very good for you, since a penis isnt intented to be in there, but i do know that after a while the sking begins to tear and gets loose

pouts wrote:

Well, its not very good for you, since a penis isn't intented to be in there, but i do know that after a while the sking begins to tear and gets loose

I can't believe this came from someone who is a moderator. This is totally false. Anal sex does not cause hemorrhoids or lack of bowel control unless there is a lot of pain or extreme play (ie. fisting) involved.

I have discussed this with three doctors (one a proctologist) who all were of the opinion anal sex was perfectly healthy. The ability to control your sphincter muscles would lessen the likelihood of hemorrhoids.

Furthermore, my wife and I have been having anal sex about five times a week for the past 14 years and have had not problems as a result.

How come no one never asks, "I have really big bowel movements. Will I loose control of bowels later?" Please...

I never said it causes hemorrhoids, and I never said anything about lack of bowel control, all I said was that its not too good for the skin around your anus.

So do you think pooping every day is any different than having a well lubricated penis in an anus?

I'm with the other gentleman who regularly visits my wifes anus, no damage, none, zippo, nada.

We use wet brand lubes and I'm no tiny tim. If you try it dry I can see lots of problems, with lube there are not the same risks so long as one is not forcing things.

As for being good for you, oh yes, anal sex is wonderful in so many ways when done right, when done wrong its horrid.

M&SP