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mcquillen
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 Posted: 04/06/06 - 00:00 Post subject: ease the pain for a virgin and her first time |
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I will be getting married in June, but I am a virgin and I tend to be until that night. How can I minimize the pain of first-time sex? He is more experienced then I am. We only had mutual masturbation and oral sex.
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jans
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| Posted: 04/10/06 - 03:06 Post subject: |
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Many women worry about discomfort or pain the first time they have vaginal intercourse To ease the pain and maximize the pleasure of first intercourse, both of you need to take the time to explore one another's bodies and fully arouse each other before penetration. People have varying levels of tolerance for pain or discomfort and if a woman does have discomfort, you and your partner need to be sure that you are aroused. After this, if you still feel pain, you need to let your husband know, and he can stop doing what is causing you discomfort. It's not uncommon for the end of the sex to be less extraordinary than expected. Sometimes one or both of you do not orgasm and other times, a man's erection might not last long or it might come and go. Taking your time, talking clearly, focusing on how good you two feel, and practicing are the best ways to allow you to enjoy this newfound intimacy.
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crzyfl
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| Posted: 04/11/06 - 01:37 Post subject: |
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| Just a quick tip - make sure you use lubrication. |
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Ready_Lube
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| Posted: 04/11/06 - 20:10 Post subject: You must use a good safe lube! |
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Just like what was said above my post...USE A LUBE! and make sure it's a good lube that won't cause any irritation or discomfort to you. Try to go with a natural lube with minimal ingredients in it to minmize any irritation you may have. I can make a suggestion but I'm sure you can find it in my sig lol 
I also have to say good job on being able to wait until marriage! It's not something I did but I have much respect for your strong will. You will certainly have fun on your wedding night
Always make sure you communicate with each other when something feels good or when something feels different or hurts. Take things slow and everything should be great.
Best wishes and congrats on getting married |
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ualexaco
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| Posted: 08/04/08 - 23:52 Post subject: it wont go in |
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| well i have tried to have sex twice now with my boyfriend, but i am just really tight and it wont go in. I dont feel awkward with him and am relaxed but that still doesnt work, what can i do?... |
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wrathofjade
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| Posted: 08/05/08 - 00:43 Post subject: Re: it wont go in |
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| ualexaco wrote: | | well i have tried to have sex twice now with my boyfriend, but i am just really tight and it wont go in. I dont feel awkward with him and am relaxed but that still doesnt work, what can i do?... |
Lube lube lube and for you to be fully aroused (that mean WET). And make sure he goes slow. You're going to have to get over the discomfort of your first time before you can actually feel anything. It will go in but you or him are probably stopping before it can. IF you're tiny and he has a HUGE girth then perhaps you will just have to forgo the intercourse. |
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