I have a great emotional problem. My girlfriend left me. We were together for almost 10 years. You could not imagine what situations we had to survive. I was always there for her. But now she is gone. She is seeing somebody else. I was certain that we will spend life together. How to survive this? It is so painful.
there is always two sides to the story. you say you didn't do anything wrong and maybe you didn't for her to leave. keeping the passion and excitement alive in a relation ship slips through ones fingers over a long period of time. sometimes love isn't enough. Life goes on. you just have to take one day at a time and go out and re intraduce yourself back into society. it will hurt for a long time but you have to look at it like this. she let you go, and she lost out. i would break all ties with her. don't be a jerk, just go your seperate way, and say hi when you see her but don't go out of your way to start a conversation with her. the longer you stay involved with her the longer you are going to hold on. i have been where you are and i never got over the man who busted my heart. hang in there.
I feel you need men to men advice. I was with the girl for 12 years. In meanwhile she had a cancer. I did not want to leave her. We have fought together and we win the battle. Two months after that she came to tell me that she had fall in love with her doctor. "I could not help it. It just happened" she said. It was the end of the world. I was thinking to kill her or me. It lasted for a year. After that I have realize that she is the one who should be sorry. Time heals all wounds. Try to spend some time with your friends. I know that you are not too happy about that idea but it will help you.
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