erection troubles (masturbation)

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argh i get erections at the most innopertune times, i was wondering if masturbation has anything to do with this, because when i am with a girl i can't get it up but when i am like standing up or something it there it goes like a rocket is there anyting i could do or should i just kill myself in embarensmant i am 17 and i masturbate 2-3 times a day

broman2333 · Newbie Joined: 18 Apr 2007 Posts: 16 Location: atlanta ga

sounds more like a mental thing...
if you're feeling really insecure when you're with your girl... you may have just psyched your penis out and let the nervousness destroy whatever horniness you had... then when you wanted to get that good feeling going that causes it to rise, you can't find it since your trying too hard, hence ruining it even more... just relax and make sure you don't beat off right before you're about to get some.

and about the innopertune stiffies... maybe you get more sensitivity in the penis because you're so focused on it not going up, that actually causes it to be even more sensitive and go up faster...

it's all just a mind thing that you can learn to control, calm down and learn how your body works before you blow your brains out.

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I just can;t get an erection when i want.I have tryed viagra but didn;t help

magicolour · Supporter Joined: 28 Oct 2007 Posts: 77 Location: UK

At your age it can often be down to being anxious or nervous. its "harder" to get an erection when your nervous. the important thing is to relax, take things slowly and this should help you. When your with your girl try and take your mind of the thought of "I must get an erection", "What if i dont get one" etc... think more about who you are with and the feelings that you are giving/recievening.

as for your random erections, this is pretty normal too and its just our bodies getting used to the new feelings down there and doesnt always know how to react to them. Somtimes embararacing but normal.

Good luck.

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