excessive painful hair...

hey im 22 year old female and ive had a hairy problem since i was 12. i have dark features, and have very thick hair on my legs and my arms are hairy just as much as my chicn, upper lip and surrounding areas on my face and the worst bit is my bum. my bum is real hairy and i hate it....
ive been trying to beat this hairyness since i was 15 as growing through my teenage days i had to get rid of this hair to be myself.
i wax my bum yes.. painfull but ive gotten used to it.. but still no effect of it changing. still same amount of hair for years on end.
ive been waxing my face, and the hair has become thicker, and i never shave my face because i know the consenquences.
my leg hair is thick, i shave my legs because ripping off the hair with wax is that painful that i have blood flowing out... its horrible

ive always been thinking about seeing the doctor but i jsut cant do it... and no, never had a mum to help so dont think that either :/
what the hell is this stuff, medical condition? rediculous!

I think you should see a doctor. i had the same hairy problem. I saw an endocrinologist and I was diagnosed for polycystic ovarian syndrome. I you have problems with body weight and irregular menstrual cycle, there is a high chance of PCOS. It is not a serious disorder but it is good to have it checked. I took medicines for many years. Although the hair problem is not much solved but the other problems are solved a bit and atleast I know what is the reason for all this.